Gary Sinise, the actor perhaps best known for playing Lieutenant Dan in the 1994 movie “Forrest Gump,” followed a rather unusual path to becoming a Catholic.
In a Feb. 4 telephone interview with Catholic News Service from Los Angeles, Sinise told his story. “At one point in the late ’90s, I remember my wife (Moira) was doing a play, ‘The
Gary Sinise, the actor perhaps best known for playing Lieutenant Dan in the 1994 movie “Forrest Gump,” followed a rather unusual path to becoming a Catholic.
In a Feb. 4 telephone interview with Catholic News Service from Los Angeles, Sinise told his story. “At one point in the late ’90s, I remember my wife (Moira) was doing a play, ‘The Playboy of the Western World.’ She was playing a woman in a tavern. She had just gone through sobriety, and she was new to her sobriety as she was playing this woman defending her life in a tavern,” Sinise said.
“At one point, she went to a Catholic church looking for an AA meeting. This little French woman, she asked her, ‘Where’s the AA meeting?’ She looked at her (Moira) and said, ‘You should become a Catholic,'” he added. “Something happened to her at that moment — I don’t know, something that had been aligned within her. Her mother was Catholic, but she fell away from the Church and married a Methodist. She was not raised in any particular faith.” After his wife finished the play, she met Sinise in North Carolina, where he was shooting a movie with Shirley MacLaine.
“There was a hurricane coming to Wilmington,” Sinise recalled. “Well, she was telling me this story, and I’m telling here we’ve gotta get out of here and drive to Charlotte and we’ll fly to Los Angeles. While we’re driving, the hurricane was blasting behind us. She turns around and says, ‘I’m going to the Catholic Church and I’m going to become a Catholic.’
“I laughed and said, ‘Wait a minute. We just moved across the street from a public school.’ ‘Yes, and I’m going to send our kids to a Catholic school,'” she added. “Sure enough, when we go home she went to the RCIA program at our local Catholic church.” For the next year, his wife was in the Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults program. “We started going to Mass,” Sinise said. “My wife was confirmed in Easter 2000. … The following year that little church became a sanctuary, a place of great comfort” following the 9/11 terror attacks in 2001.
Oh, and “our kids started attending the school there,” he added.
Sinise himself joined the Church in 2010.
“I surprised my family. I’d gone through the confirmation classes and whatnot myself behind everybody’s back and I didn’t tell anybody that I was doing it,” he said.
“On Christmas Eve 2010 I told the family I was taking them to dinner at Morton’s Steakhouse and have Christmas Eve dinner,” he said. “And on the way there, I pulled into the church, and everybody asked, ‘What are we doing here?’ I said come on in. We walked into the church. The priest was there, and he confirmed me. It was beautiful.”
This is one of the many tales Sinise tells in his newly published book, Grateful American. In the memoir, he details his life growing up in the Chicago suburbs, from being a bratty kid to trying out for a play in high school and catching the acting bug, to helping establish the still-going-strong Steppenwolf Theater Company in the Windy City, as well as his many adventures in films and on stage.
“It’s an autobiography for sure, but it’s a life-changing story,” Sinise told CNS. The 9/11 terror attacks were a pivot for him. “Something happened when I went from actor to advocate for our nation’s defenders,” he said.
A look at the Gary Sinise Foundation’s website, www.garysinisefoundation.org, includes a page listing his appearances and visits at military bases and hospitals — a list so extensive that Sinise seems to be the Bob Hope for the current generation.
“That service to others was a great healer to a broken heart after that terrible day, when we saw that terrible thing happen and we were all afraid and we were all wondering what was going to happen to our country,” Sinise said. “There’s something to my book where I talk honestly and say that that particular day was turning a point for a life of service.”
Ellie Kemper and Michael Koman had a big decision to make when it came to raising their 1-year-old son, James.
You see, Kemper was raised Catholic, while Koman was raised Jewish, and therefore, they had to meet on common grounds when it came to their first child together.
Well, the Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt star joined The Late Show Wednesd
Ellie Kemper and Michael Koman had a big decision to make when it came to raising their 1-year-old son, James.
You see, Kemper was raised Catholic, while Koman was raised Jewish, and therefore, they had to meet on common grounds when it came to their first child together.
Well, the Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt star joined The Late Show Wednesday night and dished to Stephen Colbert that they decided to go the Catholic route. One point of interest for fans in Kemper and Koman's personal life is religion, since the two both grew up devout in different faiths. Koman is Jewish, while Kemper is a practicing Roman Catholic. In 2016, Kemper explained that she and Koman had agreed to raise their children Roman Catholic in an interview with Stephen Colbert.
"He's also Jewish, and he, very gamely, agreed to get married in the Catholic Church, 'cause it meant a lot to me," she said. "Michael and I've been talking about, how will we raise our future children? In what faith? 'Cause we're different faiths. We hadn't really reached a resolution."
A practicing Catholic, Kemper married Koman at New York’s Church of the Blessed Sacrament. Kemper revealed that the Catholic priest actually who married them actually took that decision out of their hands during the wedding preparations. He asked a series of question in their vows, including their intentions for raising their children.
"Then it was, 'will you raise you children in accordance with the law of the Catholic Church?' I was so worried that Michael, who can't lie … I was so worried [that] he was going to say like, 'I don't know' or something, so I very loudly said, 'I will.' I could hear Michael, like, softly, out of the corner of his mouth go, 'OK.'"
You met John Paul II during an audience after playing Jesus in “The Passion of the Christ.” After watching the film he said “It is as it was.” How did you receive the praise coming from the Pope?
The Pope always called young people to break away from contaminated and demoralized civilization. “Be saints,” he said. Impossible? No, it is pos
You met John Paul II during an audience after playing Jesus in “The Passion of the Christ.” After watching the film he said “It is as it was.” How did you receive the praise coming from the Pope?
The Pope always called young people to break away from contaminated and demoralized civilization. “Be saints,” he said. Impossible? No, it is possible. I often hear the voice of Christ in my heart: “Jim, you will manage today.”
It is a message saying that everyone in the world is equally important. It is also an appeal for a Christian life. A life in which one demonstrates to everyone they come across that Jesus is their Lord.
I remember the Pope saying to Americans: “You can all be saints!” It makes me sad that so many people in my country do not seek sainthood. They substitute it with drugs and hedonism. It is simply filling the emotional void.
For me, the Catholic Mass is the source of constant empowerment.
That’s where I can meet Jesus. And it’s not simply about having the symbolic wafer. It’s about an actual transformation. Bread and wine? No, it’s the body and blood of the Christ.
This is worth dying for. Every day I pray to die with Jesus in my heart, not to ever abandon him.
Caviezel pointed to the growing travesty of human trafficking. “The United States is the biggest buyer of trafficking pedophilia in the world, and Mexico being the biggest producer of it, with over 300,000 children being taken into the United States under the age of 18,” he said. “It looks like a good fight to pick” to highlight in film.
He described the experience of portraying Ballard as “a meaningful journey,” like The Passion of the Christ. “This is the best film I’ve done since that movie,” he said.
“People have to realize that it could have been a much different journey for me,” Caviezel added. “I was around 14 and called out to God: ‘Can you please help me? Help me find my purpose.’ And he did. I didn’t believe in myself. I didn’t believe that I could be this actor. As long as he believes in me, well, I believe in myself.” Caviezel said that he is influenced by the Gospels, including the story of St. John the Baptist. “Maybe some Christians think that’s just a different time period,” he said, “but I love God enough that I would give my head for him, like Tim Ballard is willing to do. He goes down to Columbia risking his life.”
Caviezel spent time with Ballard in the “war room” to learn the operation. He planned to join Ballard on a mission but was told to step aside when it became too risky. “My wife was scared for me,” Caviezel said. He reassured her by explaining that there were 30 Navy Seals protecting them during filming. But one day, there were only two Seals on the set. According to Caviezel, “The other 28 saved 200 children that day.”
Backlash has been experienced, amid their efforts to shine light.
“Massive backlash,” Caviezel reported. “But listen, I don’t belong to the church of happy Jesus. I understand that there are risks that we all come against, but I don’t fear the devil. I fear God. It comes from love. My time on this earth is limited, and I want to get the most out of it that I can. I took huge risks when I adopted my three children. Two of them had brain tumors, and one of them had sarcoma. God gave me some really strong challenges, but my pearl that I have in my heart is the kingdom of heaven that I’m searching for deeply.” “We need to express our faith publicly, boldly,” Caviezel said. “It’s an unpopular Gospel. Christian bigotry is the most accepted form of bigotry right now in the world. So, who is going to step forward? My Lord loved me when he came to me and asked me to be an actor. He loved me so much that I felt like I was his only child. And if I lose my life fighting for something for the only God I know, the Father, the Son, the Holy Spirit, I will gladly give my life.”
‘This light is going to get bigger and bigger,” Caviezel continued. “These agents who know all about what is going on, the guys who talked to me and opened up the books, showed me stuff that I was not supposed to see, they are going to watch this movie, and it is going to fill their hearts with such love that they are not going to be afraid anymore. This is how the devil bites his tail, when people start discovering that when Jesus says, ‘Be not afraid,’ he means for us to take it literally, and I am going to take him at his word.”
Leah Marie Remini; born June 15, 1970) is an American actress. She starred as Carrie Heffernanon the CBS sitcom The King of Queens (1998–2007) and as Vanessa Celluci in the CBS sitcom Kevin Can Wait (2017–2018), both alongside Kevin James.
Remini coproduced and hosted the A&E documentary series Leah Remini: Scientology and the Aftermath(20
Leah Marie Remini; born June 15, 1970) is an American actress. She starred as Carrie Heffernanon the CBS sitcom The King of Queens (1998–2007) and as Vanessa Celluci in the CBS sitcom Kevin Can Wait (2017–2018), both alongside Kevin James.
Remini coproduced and hosted the A&E documentary series Leah Remini: Scientology and the Aftermath(2016–2019), for which she won two Primetime Emmy Awards for Outstanding Hosted Nonfiction Series or Special. She also cohosted the daytime talk show The Talk (2010–2011). Remini's films include the comedy Old School (2003), the mystery comedy Handsome (2017), and the romantic comedy Second Act (2018).
After being a member of the Church of Scientology from childhood, Remini left the organization in 2013. Two years later, Remini released her book, Troublemaker: Surviving Hollywood and Scientology; the memoir became number one on the New York Times best-seller list. In 2016, she followed up with an Emmy Award-winning documentary television series on A&E, Leah Remini: Scientology and the Aftermath, where she created a platform for victims and survivors of Scientology.
Since July 2020, Remini has been the cohost of the podcast Scientology: Fair Game, alongside Mike Rinder.
Remini has an 11-year-old daughter named Sofia with husband Angelo and has admitted that her child was a huge reason why she abandoned Scientology as she was afraid her daughter would be forced to choose between her parents or staying in the Scientology faith.
Since leaving Scientology, the 45-year-old actress has reconnected with her Catholic faith.
"I was baptized a Catholic. I got my daughter baptized a Catholic," she said, "and yes I'm reconnecting with my faith and it's been a beautiful thing and I want that for my daughter."
When asked what she wanted people to come away after reading her controversial book, Remini remarked poignantly, "I really want people to know that it's kind of never too late to start again."
After more than three decades as a Scientologist, Leah Remini tells PEOPLE she is now finding comfort in Catholicism – and is embracing it for all the ways she feels it differs from Scientology.
“Nobody is asking me for money. Nobody is demanding that I come,” she tells PEOPLE in its latest cover story. “I light a candle. I sit and I listen.”
Remini, 45, broke with Scientology in 2013 after growing up within the controversial religion, and rising in stature within the church after she found fame on The King of Queens.
But the actress – who just released her tell-all book, Troublemaker: Surviving Hollywood and Scientology – says her exploration of Catholicism is also a return to her roots, explaining that she was baptized Catholic and learned about the religion from her Sicilian grandmother.
For much more from Remini – including what she says about Tom Cruise, Katie Holmes and more – pick up the latest issue of PEOPLE, on newsstands Friday
In September her daughter Sofia, 11, was also baptized Catholic.
“A very special day for our little girl and her Godparents, Remini captioned one family shot of the day, including the hashtags #baptism #catholic #newbeginnings.
Remini’s husband, Angelo Pagén, also tweeted a photo of the Baptism and confirmed he and Remini always identified with the faith.
“For the record @leahremini and I have always been Catholic ! Why we waited so long to baptize Sofia ! Hmmm .anyway it was a beautiful experience and our little angel is on her way to a more spiritual existence. God Bless” he captioned a shot of his daughter being dunked in the holy water.
Remini estimates she “probably” gave nearly $5 million to the Church of Scientology over her 35 years in the religion. Scientology responded in a statement that “as with most religions, donations by parishioners are the primary source of financial support for Churches of Scientology…. Other religions may have a system of tithes while some others require their members to pay for pew rentals, to make offerings for masses, religious ceremonies and services or to purchase tickets for admission to High Holy Day services.”
Remini, meanwhile, says she is finding peace as she visits a Catholic church “by myself, sitting and praying and doing my rosary.”
“Sometimes I don’t do anything,” she continues. “To me it’s what religion is supposed to be: a beautiful thing.”
Actor Shia LaBeouf, who portrays Padre Pio in the upcoming Padre Pio film, recently provided an update on his conversion to Catholicism. LaBeouf revealed back in August 2022 that he was converting to Catholicism with Bishop Robert Barron of the Diocese of Winona-Rochester in Minnesota.
LaBeouf told Barron that his conversion came when he w
Actor Shia LaBeouf, who portrays Padre Pio in the upcoming Padre Pio film, recently provided an update on his conversion to Catholicism. LaBeouf revealed back in August 2022 that he was converting to Catholicism with Bishop Robert Barron of the Diocese of Winona-Rochester in Minnesota.
LaBeouf told Barron that his conversion came when he was at one of the lowest points in his life and had been approached by director Abel Ferrara to make a film about the life of Padre Pio.
In 'Conversations at the Crossroads' with Bishop Robert Barron, LaBeouf said how his connection to the religion at the lowest point in his life saved him. He says his "life was on fire" prior to familiarising himself with the religion, reports aceshowbiz.com.
Bishop Robert Barron's interview with actor Shia LaBeouf, in which LaBeouf not only announced his conversion to the Catholic faith but rivetingly described the steps of what he calls his “salvific journey.”
LaBeouf has appeared in 40 movies, four television films, 77 episodes for various shows and three video games. Winner of multiple acting awards, the 36-year-old is most famous for his leading role as Sam Witwicky in the Transformers series.
But astride the fame, he has lived a troubled life. He appeared nude in 10 movies, with most featuring graphic sex scenes, an indication of his loss of shame and self-worth. He battled with alcohol addiction, plagiarized a script, was charged with disorderly conduct, harassment, criminal trespass, public intoxication, obstruction, battery and theft, and was accused by one girlfriend of physical abuse and by another of sexual battery, assault and infliction of emotional distress.
In the interview with Bishop Barron, LaBeouf confessed, “My life was on fire. I was walking out of hell. … I didn't want to be an actor anymore and my life was a complete mess. I’d hurt a lot of people.” News had come out that “I’ve been abusive to women and have been shooting dogs and I’ve been willingly giving women STDs. It’s disgusting, it’s depraved, and my mother is embarrassed beyond all imagination.”
"I had a gun on the table. I was outta here," he opens up about his suicidal thoughts.
"I didn't want to be alive anymore when all this happened. Shame like I had never experienced before - the kind of shame that you forget how to breathe. You don't know where to go. You can't go outside and get like, a taco."
"I didn't want to be an actor anymore, and my life was a complete mess. I had hurt a lot of people, and I felt deep shame and deep guilt," LaBeouf confesses of his shame, before adding, "But I was also in this deep desire to hold on."
After connecting with 'Padre Pio' director Abel Ferrara, LaBeouf began staying at a seminary in San Lorenzo, California, living out of his car in the parking lot, to prepare for the role. While he said he was initially motivated by his desire to rehabilitate his career, he also looks back on the experienced as a moment of divine intervention.
"The reach-out had happened. I was already there, I had nowhere to go. This was the last stop on the train. There was nowhere else to go - in every sense," the 36-year-old shares.
"I know now God was using my ego to draw me to Him, was drawing me away from worldly desires. It was all happening simultaneously. But there would have been no impetus for me to get in the car and drive up (to the monastery) if I didn't think, 'Oh, I'm gonna save my career.'"
Calling his past actions "disgusting" and "depraved," the 'Constantine' actor says he felt unworthy of seeking out religion, but as he read the gospel he felt an "invite" to "let go."
But it wasn't until he met with other people who had gone through similar struggles that he was able to fully embrace the religion.
"It was seeing other people who had sinned beyond anything I could even conceptualise also being found in Christ that made me feel like, 'Okay, that gives me hope,' " he explains.
"I started hearing experiences of other depraved people who had found their way in this, and it made me feel like I had permission."
Although his mother is Jewish and his father is Christian, LaBeouf says he never felt a strong tie to a singular religion until now.
"I didn't know I was baptised. I had been baptised earlier in my life and didn't even remember it," he tells Barron. "My uncle had baptised me in the (Trinitarian formula)."
In 'Padre Pio', LaBeouf plays the title character. The biopic is based on the real life of the Italian Franciscan Capuchin friar, who became famous for showing stigmata, or crucifixion wounds like those on the body of Jesus Christ.
He died in 1968 at the age of 81, was beatified by Pope John Paul II in 1999 and then canonised in 2002.
While doing research on Padre Pio’s life at the Province of St. Mary of the Capuchin Order, LaBeouf detailed, ““I’m falling into a group of men that met me in San Lorenzo, mainly a guy named Brother Jude, who starts talking to me about the Gospel. And he says, ‘Well, if you are going to play Pio you need to read the Gospel. And so I’ve never read the Gospel and he’s reading Matthew to me.”
LaBeouf would relay, “I read it for the first time and things start to strike me. Like John the Baptist. The story of John the Baptist being a reformed hedonist, being this man who was sort of scraggly and kind of felt like an old western character from — he felt like a cowboy. He felt kind of rustic and strong and masculine.”
“And my opinion of Christ at this point felt almost like I was reading about a Buddhist,” he told Bishop Barron. “Like this very soft, fragile, all loving, all listening, but no ferocity, no romance.”
“So all I know about was this very soft, weak Jesus, which didn’t fit into my idea of masculinity would be,” he said. “My dad was a Mongol biker. It wasn’t appealing to me. But then I read about John the Baptist and it became quite appealing.”
He then detailed, “At that time when I was reading it, I was holding on so tight to a life that was slipping away through my hands to a 35 years of management. The Gospel gave me this invite to just let go. ”
From there, LaBeouf relayed that his time with the Capuchin friars no longer became about doing research for the film and the life of Padre Pio, “It stops being this like prep of a movie and it starts being something that feels beyond all that and I stopped sending videos. Like at a certain point with Jude I just really fall in. And then I meet these women, The Sacred Heart Sisters, who start really catechizing me in a very real way. In a very like, ‘Let’s go through it. Let’s talk about it paragraph by paragraph.’
He continued, “And what happened was also happened to be a meeting at the church for this other spiritual program I am in right next door to Sister Lucia’s. So I wake up in the morning 9 am. I go to my meeting. Then 10 am I’d be with Sister Lucia, and then 11 am I’d be with Brother Jude. And then 12 I’d be with Father James who’s now in…”
Following this interview with Bishop Barron, Catholic News Agency’s Joe Bukuras spoke with Brother Alexander Rodriguez, O.F.M., a Franciscan Capuchin who befriended Labeouf and even traveled with him to Italy to film Padre Pio and took part in it.
Bukuras reports that “LeBeouf had entered the Rite of Christian Initiation, or R.C.I.A., at Santa Inés. But the friar revealed that LaBeouf never finished the catechetical education program because of conflicts with his filming schedule.”
He also notes that after discovering he was baptized by his uncle at the age of 13 the Capuchins asked if he would receive Holy Communion informing the actor, “You can’t play Padre Pio without receiving Communion!”
LaBeouf had previously informed Bishop Barron he had received the Eucharist.
Now, in an interview to promote the upcoming Padre Pio film, LaBeouf provided an update on his journey to Catholicism informing the outlet he’s “in RCIA and scheduled to be confirmed in seven months. And I hope Bishop Barron comes down to confirm me. But we’ll see.”
He reiterated, “I’m in RCIA right now. Once a week I get on the horn with Father Bobby and we talk shop.”
Insofar as there are many today not only following the descending paths LaBeouf trod prior to his conversion, but also many who admire his work and are dumbfounded by his conversion, it’s good for the Church to know what drew him and might draw others.
LaBeouf was, first, drawn by the way that the Catholic life is “full immersion.” It involves reason, will and feelings. As an actor, he ironically hates anything that feels like acting — his bar mitzvah at 13 felt, he said, like acting — and he refused to fake a Padre Pio accent. He sought integrity and, to his surprise, discovered it in Catholic life.
Second, he hungered for a sense of connection and found it with the Capuchins. Their welcoming, down-to-earth, sincere fraternity — not to mention their laughter, ice cream and cats — drew him.
Third, he was captivated by the Mass, especially the traditional Latin Mass, which he needed to learn — and immerse himself in — for the movie. For him, pretending to celebrate it and attending it made him feel that “a secret” was being shared with him. It enveloped him with a sense of the reality of God and the sacred.
His first experiences of the Mass in English were, he lamented, as if someone was “trying to sell me on an idea,” where the preaching was not fit for the dignity of what the Mass is, but rather was an invitation “to let your hair down right before you’re asking me to fully believe that we’re about to walk through the death of Christ.” When he discovered he had been baptized by an uncle and the Capuchins allowed him to begin receiving Holy Communion, he said he could almost feel the physical effect and regeneration of entering into Christ’s death and resurrection.
Fourth, he was moved by the fact that great converts preceded him. He spoke of the impact of St. Augustine and St. Francis of Assisi, but mainly of Capuchin Brother Jim Townsend, a con man who murdered his pregnant wife and spent 20 years in prison, but converted and ended up spending 39 years as a Capuchin. He “gave me permission as a sinner,” LaBeouf said, and if after all Townsend had done, such a man could live by faith, there was hope for him, too.
Fifth, he had to be taught how to pray. Prior, praying felt like “memorizing someone else’s words.” But when a Capuchin brother and Bishop Barron explained how to handle quiet and pass from silence to loving thoughts and loving deeds, everything began to click.
Sixth, he longed to meet a masculine Jesus.
“My opinion of Christ at this point,” he said, “felt almost like I was reading about a Buddhist, a very soft, fragile, all-loving, all-listening [man] with no ferocity, no romance.” That impression was reinforced by the “art that I had seen,” which featured “very soft, more feminized” depictions of Jesus. Reading the Gospel, with the guidance of the strong paternal influence of a Capuchin, he came to understand the difference between weakness and meekness, and to grasp how meekness, like Jesus showed throughout his life, is a summit of strength.
Seventh, he needed to discover a “purpose” in life, what Catholics would ordinarily call a vocation.
A Capuchin taught him that discernment happens through discovering the talents God has given you and determining how you can use them to help others. LaBeouf thought his sole talent was “bleeding in front of people,” something featured in several of his films. He eventually grasped how appropriate that skill set was in depicting the modern world’s most famous stigmatist!
Eighth, he had to learn the redemptive meaning of suffering.
He thought that the suffering he had borne and caused until then was “pointless.” A Capuchin helped him to see how “suffering is actually a gift” — a realization that led LaBeouf even to thank the woman who had accused him of sexual abuse, who he said “saved his life,” through the shame he had to endure as a result of her accusations and the pain he had caused.
All of these lessons were integrated, ninth, in St. Pio, whom LaBeouf came to know as “one of the most respected, beloved saints who ever graced the earth.” To immerse oneself in his life in the midst of his fellow Capuchins — trying to imitate the way he celebrated Mass, prayed, sought and dispensed God’s mercy, dealt with suffering and rejection, prayed from dawn to dusk, manfully challenged others to holiness, and lived his Capuchin vocation with immense faith, hope and charity — has been for LaBeouf a tremendous school that, likewise, “saved my life.”
As we give God thanks for LaBeouf’s conversion and pray for his continued growth in the virtues of Catholic life, we similarly pray that his conversion might bring many others to the Catholic faith as well as help everyone in the Church to recognize the enduring attraction of the faith and the practices that make that beauty shine.
There must have been a great deal of boisterous laughter and a bunch of corny jokes in Nancy Murray’s home when she was a child. Four of Nancy’s brothers demonstrated comedic talent that eventually earned them careers in show business: Brian (now known as Brian Doyle-Murray) is an actor, comedian and screenwriter who appeared in several f
There must have been a great deal of boisterous laughter and a bunch of corny jokes in Nancy Murray’s home when she was a child. Four of Nancy’s brothers demonstrated comedic talent that eventually earned them careers in show business: Brian (now known as Brian Doyle-Murray) is an actor, comedian and screenwriter who appeared in several films including Caddyshack, Scrooged, Ghostbusters II, Groundhog Day and The Razor’s Edge. Joel Murray has had prominent roles in popular television series including Mad Men, Grand, Love & War, and Dharma and Greg, and has had roles in several films including God Bless America and Monsters University. John Murray played important roles in Scrooged, Caddyshack and Moving Violations.
Perhaps the most amusing and best known of Nancy’s funny brothers was her brother Bill, who grew up to become an Emmy Award-winning actor, comedian, filmmaker and writer. Bill Murray rose to fame as part of the cast on Saturday Night Live, then starred in numerous comedy films including Meatballs, Caddyshack, Tootsie, Ghostbusters, What About Bob?, and Groundhog Day.
But amid the laughter in the Murray home, there was a strong emphasis on spirituality. Nancy’s Irish Catholic parents — Lucille, a mail-room clerk, and Edward Joseph Murray, a lumber salesman — raised their nine children in the Catholic faith, taking them to Mass and enrolling them in Catholic schools.
Nancy Murray, like her brothers, was drawn to acting and production, so she studied theater at Barry University in the mid-1960s. But she was also attracted to religious life and eventually entered the Adrian Dominican Sisters in Adrian, Michigan. As a religious sister, she would live and pray in community.
For years, Sister Nancy taught at a school in Chicago. But when one of her drama teachers died, Nancy was invited to consider taking her place, playing the role of St. Catherine of Siena. It took some time before Sister Nancy was persuaded, but performing onstage has become her vocation — what she calls a “migrant ministry.” With simple props and a fertile imagination, Sister Nancy portrays Catherine as the colorful, strong, passionate and enthusiastic personality that she was.
Since 2000, Sister Nancy Murray has traveled all over America and around the world performing for schools, parishes and Catholic organizations, and bringing to life the Dominican saint, Catherine of Siena, the 14th-century Italian lay Dominican remembered for her service to the needy and the sick and for her letter-writing, which included a long correspondence with Pope Gregory XI. St. Catherine successfully advocated for the return of the papacy from Avignon to Rome, and called for political change in her native Italy. In 1970, she was the first woman to be named Doctor of the Church.
Sister Nancy Murray is best known for her portrayal of Saint Catherine, but she has also brought to the stage the story of Sister Dorothy Stang, a sister of Notre Dame de Namur, and another play about Mary Potter, the founder of the Sisters of the Little Company of Mary. Information about Sister Nancy Murray’s performances is available at her website.
St. Catherine’s feast day is celebrated on April 29. She is the protectress against fire, sexual temptation, illness and miscarriages and the patroness of the United States, Italy, nurses and people ridiculed for their faith.
From his upbringing to his taste in film, Bill Murray’s religious background has remained a mystery. Murray was born in 1950 in Wilmette, Illinois, to a large Irish-Catholic family. The Murrays were one of the founding families of the area, and their history of strong Catholicism is well-known in the local community. It is believed that Murray remained close to his faith roots throughout his life and continues to practice the form of Catholicism he was raised with.
One example of Murray’s Catholic faith is his taste in film. Murray is known for his preference for “spiritual” films, such as The Razor’s Edge, a film based on the novel by W. Somerset Maugham about a man’s spiritual journey. The film, which was a box office disappointment, was nonetheless praised by the Catholic News Service (CNS) for its “richly detailed themes of transcendentalism, mysticism and faith.”
Another example of Murray’s apparent Catholic faith is his involvement in charitable work. Murray is known for his generous donations to Catholic charities and organizations, including Catholic Charities USA. In 2007, Murray donated $100,000 to the Catholic Charities of New York and has since then made multiple donations to help others in need.
Murray is also known to be a frequent visitor of religious monuments and sites around the world. During his travels, Murray has visited St. Peter’s Basilica in Rome, the Notre Dame Cathedral in Paris and the Benedictine Monastery in the Czech Republic. All of these locations are known for their deep ties to the Catholic faith.
Bill Murray has garnered a lot of public appeal with his off-screen antics in the last decade. The famed movie star has a habit of turning up where you’d least expect him, always ending his impromptu appearances with a cryptic, “No one will ever believe you.”
We recently talked about an instance where he gifted David Letterman with a Christening gown, but his good natured meddling extends to more than just other celebrities. Murray has been known to photo bomb engagement partiesand hop behind a bar to serve drinks, with seemingly no motive greater than bringing smiles to the faces of strangers.
No one is really a stranger to Bill Murray, however, as he is welcomed in all of these events with open arms. In fact, so many people have had these random interactions with the star that an entire website has been constructed to document such occurrences. He’s stuck with the extreme inconvenience of being recognized wherever he goes, but he seems to have found a way to turn his fame into a good deed, a gift of joy to others.
In the Netflix series, The Bill Murray Stories: Life Lessons Learned From a Mythical Man, an attempt is made to try to find out what motivates Murray to create memorable moments for strangers. A 2014 interview with The Guardian may shed some light on where the comedian/actor is coming from.
Murray once again played the wild card, as he began talking about something few would have expected: His Catholic faith. Murray was raised in an Irish Catholic family. The middle child of nine — and the brother of a nun — he speaks of Catholicism with an intimacy and affection many Catholics will appreciate:
You don’t need to ask if his faith is important to him. He talks about how 19th-century candidates risk not getting canonized because the church is keen to push ahead with the likes of John Paul II and Mother Teresa. “I think they’re just trying to get current and hot,” he smiles. One new saint he does approve of is Pope John XXIII (who died in 1963). “I’ll buy that one, he’s my guy; an extraordinary joyous Florentine who changed the order. I’m not sure all those changes were right. I tend to disagree with what they call the new mass. I think we lost something by losing the Latin. Now if you go to a Catholic mass even just in Harlem it can be in Spanish, it can be in Ethiopian, it can be in any number of languages. The shape of it, the pictures, are the same but the words aren’t the same.”
When asked if he thought hearing the Mass said in one’s own language is a good thing, he remarked “I guess,” and continued:
“But there’s a vibration to those words. If you’ve been in the business long enough you know what they mean anyway. And I really miss the music – the power of it, y’know? Yikes! Sacred music has an affect on your brain.” Instead, he says, we get “folk songs … top 40 stuff … oh, brother…”
And Vincent’s emotional journey follows the same arc as Murray’s characters in Groundhog Day and Ghostbusters, Broken Flowers and Lost in Translation. He gets domesticated. The curmudgeon finds salvation in conventionality. “Vincent has got to acknowledge,” says Murray, “that we all have an obligation to more than just ourselves. In this world it plays out as our fellow man. And ultimately something higher – that’s the ultimate we manifest. But the tasks we’re given here are our families.”
Yet Murray’s root appeal is not based on this third-act incarnation. Movies may need to end that way, but off-screen, the closer to average Murray gets, the less we want to be like him. It’s the frank and freewheeling real-life guy we worship, the one who rollicks about dressed like a jumble sale, whose irreverence hasn’t been curbed.
So why does he connect quite so deeply? Cameron Crowe, who’s just finished shooting a movie with him, thinks Murray’s detachment from the star system alters his affinity with an audience. Like the new pope, he walks among us. “He’s very skilled at breaking through the barriers that make many celebrities so uncomfortable around their fans. With Bill and his fans it’s an equal playing field. He’s not floating above them in some hallowed showbiz world, he’s right there with them, living life, like the big brother or uncle you look forward to seeing at Christmas. He doesn’t live in a gilded cage and run from his fans, he runs with them. I think he’s even done that – literally.
While Roumie has grown up Catholic, he has spoken openly about the deeper conversion he experienced. He explains that four and a half years ago he began to grow in his faith. Roumie had been an active member at his parish and participated in several ministries such as being a sponsor in RCIA, a eucharistic minister, and lector, but admits
While Roumie has grown up Catholic, he has spoken openly about the deeper conversion he experienced. He explains that four and a half years ago he began to grow in his faith. Roumie had been an active member at his parish and participated in several ministries such as being a sponsor in RCIA, a eucharistic minister, and lector, but admits that he was not letting God take part in his career. It wasn’t until he was brought to the brink of poverty that he finally let God take complete control of his life.
Roumie shares that he woke up one day in May 2018 and was overdrawn on his bank account, had $20 in his wallet, had enough food for the day, had rent and bills arriving, and had not worked in three weeks. He got on his knees in front of his crucifix and poured his heart out to God. Roumie expresses that he felt an overwhelming sense of peace that everything was going to be OK. Later that day he received four checks in the mail. It was then that he truly surrendered his career to God.
How is your own faith impacted when portraying these incredible moments from the Bible?
It just connects me to the moments more. It connects me more to Scripture more deeply. It connects me to Christ. It makes me want to know him more deeply and try to be a better steward of his grace and to try to discern his will for me on a day-to-day basis with the level of clarity that even a couple of years ago I couldn’t have had. So it’s been an honor.
I saw your speech at the March for Life. Can you tell me more about that and, in a sense, publicly coming out as being pro-life, because I know you said in your speech it was a hard decision for you?
Career killer. No, I am 100% joking. It doesn’t have any effect on my career because that’s what God asked me to do.
I didn’t want to do it. I said that briefly in the rally speech, and then I talked about it at length at the Rose dinner. I didn’t want to do it. I didn’t want to dip my toe into that pool. I thought, “What’s going to happen?”
And it was like worst-case scenarios in my mind — and that was the fear talking, and that was the enemy trying to get in my head.
And even the people that I had asked counsel to about this, and rightly so, were like, “Well, maybe it’s not the best thing to do professionally,” which they wouldn’t be wrong, but, personally, I had to put that aside, and I had to deal with, personally and spiritually, what was the best thing to do.
And when I got the call from upstairs to do it and to talk about the thing that I was trying to talk around, it was a surrender moment for me — and the thing just started to write itself, and I just couldn’t help myself.
And with some insights as to who the audience was going to be, I was able to make some tweaks, literally like hours before, and it seemed to reach a lot of people.
So I think it was the right thing for me to do. It was an uncomfortable thing for me to do. But, as usual, God’s got my back, and he’s walking me through every moment that I do something that feels a little unusual for me. And it ends up being much better than I ever could have imagined — a much better decision than I ever could have predicted.
Patricia was born into a Catholic family, the daughter of a mom who was one of fifteen siblings! Patricia's own sister, is a Dominican nun. As a young Catholic girl, Heaton, 60, was raised to believe that “suffering is what you do.” But when her mother, Patricia Hurd Heaton, suddenly died of an aneurysm, her world turned upside down.
“I th
Patricia was born into a Catholic family, the daughter of a mom who was one of fifteen siblings! Patricia's own sister, is a Dominican nun. As a young Catholic girl, Heaton, 60, was raised to believe that “suffering is what you do.” But when her mother, Patricia Hurd Heaton, suddenly died of an aneurysm, her world turned upside down.
“I think the most defining moment of my childhood was my mother passed away very suddenly, when I was 12,” she tells PEOPLE in this week’s issue, on stands Friday. “And so, that kind of does something to you, especially as Irish Catholics. There was no therapy, there was no grief counseling. It was like, ‘Okay, we just came from the funeral. Has everybody finished their homework?’… The foundation of your life has been pulled out from under you, in a very primal way.” But spiritually, Heaton felt at ease.
“In a way I feel like my mother’s death was a severe mercy because it set me up to become independent, to know that life is fleeting, and you need to pursue the thing you wanna pursue because you never know how long you have,” she says. “And it also makes you value the time and events that do come into your life.” “And it also makes everything else not so terrible, because it’s almost the worst thing that could happen to you,” she adds. “The only worse thing would be if you, God forbid, I don’t even like to say it out loud, lost a child. So that would be the worst, but I’ve experienced the second worst. And you know, the beauty of being a Catholic is, this is not the last time I will ever see my mother, we will be together again, there’s just this period where she’s not here, and so it’s not the most desperate feeling. It’s pretty bad, but it’s not the worst.” “I am so aware of how blessed I am, but there are more challenges ahead,” she says, later adding, “It’s hard, sitting where I am now and having been privileged to be a part of the shows that I’m on, to say I would do anything different. Because it’s almost like everything led to this. But I felt that’s totally God’s grace.” “My sister is a Dominican nun. My grandparents met Pope John Paul I. My mom was one of 15 children. I have some 100 first cousins on my mom's side. So, we're a very Catholic family. Meeting the Pope is such an incredible honor that I never thought I would have.”
She described her time with the Holy Father as incredibly special. Asked whether she finds it challenging to be a Catholic actor in Hollywood, Ms. Heaton said, “God has been very gracious to me", noting she never had to to be "morally compromised" in her shows. “I've always felt that I've been able to be open about who I am and what I believe.” “Pope Francis talked about bringing beauty and truth to the world. And we are privileged to be creators, as God is Creator and has gifted us, in a small way, for each of us to be able to hopefully bring some truth and beauty to the world, to a world which is very divided right now, a world that is filled with trouble and poverty and war.”
“We need this message of God's love for all of us, of His beauty and His truth and the love that Christ has for all of us. We need that even more.”
Actress & singer, she is best known for her work as a child actress on Nickelodeon for working on the shows All That & Zoey 101. She was very popular during her career, but it ended abruptly after she became pregnant at such a young age. After a while though, she later found success as a country singer, & continues to act in the televisio
Actress & singer, she is best known for her work as a child actress on Nickelodeon for working on the shows All That & Zoey 101. She was very popular during her career, but it ended abruptly after she became pregnant at such a young age. After a while though, she later found success as a country singer, & continues to act in the television series Sweet Magnolias. She is also known for being the younger sister of beloved pop singer & icon Britney Spears.
Jamie Lynn Spears continues to give thanks to God more than three weeks after her daughter survived an ATV accident.
While celebrating Ash Wednesday at a Catholic church, the country singer decided to pose for a selfie with her mom Lynne Spears and daughter Maddie Aldridge.
"#AshWednesday," she captioned the photo that featured Maddie smiling from ear-to-ear. "#GodIsGood."
The family's latest post comes close to a month after Maddie was hospitalized after an ATV accident. The eight-year-old was riding in a vehicle when it reportedly flipped over into a pond.
Maddie was reportedly submerged under water for several minutes before being airlifted to a nearby hospital. She would defy doctors' expectations and was released one week later.
Jamie Lynn Spears continues to give thanks to God more than three weeks after her daughter survived an ATV accident.
While celebrating Ash Wednesday at a Catholic church, the country singer decided to pose for a selfie with her mom Lynne Spears and daughter Maddie Aldridge.
"#AshWednesday," she captioned the photo that featured Maddie smiling from ear-to-ear. "#GodIsGood."
The family's latest post comes close to a month after Maddie was hospitalized after an ATV accident. The eight-year-old was riding in a vehicle when it reportedly flipped over into a pond.
Maddie was reportedly submerged under water for several minutes before being airlifted to a nearby hospital. She would defy doctors' expectations and was released one week later.
The famous Spears sisters, Britney and Jamie Lynn, publicly turned to God after a tragic accident left Jamie Lynn's 8-year-old daughter unconscious in the hospital. Now the young mother reveals that God used the tragedy to get her priorities in line.
Jamie's daughter, Maddie Briann Aldridge, is now fully recovered. And in celebration of her 26th birthday, the happy mother took to Instagram with a snapshot of a Christian devotional she's reading with a lengthy caption alongside of it where she reveals God used the situation to put her in her place.
"I'm not one to preach, and I'm no priest, but God's timing is no coincidence," Jamie wrote. "I hate seeing, much less, reading someone's long post, but here I go: Music, and my career [has] always been a big passion in my life, as well as to create a future that my family could be proud of. I have been working on my music for almost a decade now, and I have had many great successes as an artist/writer, but I was always wondering, how long I would have to WAIT for my big break? Wow, did God put me in my place..."
The former Nickelodeon star then went into detail about the emotional rollercoaster she went on after her daughter was unconscious for several days in February following an ATV accident. According to "Inside Edition," Aldridge's ATV turned over into a pond on the family's property, trapping the girl underwater. Jamie and her parents tried to rescue Aldridge until paramedics arrived on the scene, but her seatbelt prevented their efforts. She was eventually airlifted to a hospital where she spent some time in critical condition.
"Time doesn't matter, and seems to blur together when you're waiting for your daughter to wake up, and a day could be a week, and you wouldn't notice, because you're fighting for what you love. For obvious reasons, I put everything with my work life on hold, till I knew my little girl was more [than OK]," Jamie further explained in her post.
"Now, more [than] ever, I realize how important it is to only put your time into things that matter, and I can't wait to get back to my music. Now, that my baby girl is better- I can't wait to make her proud. She is my everything. I want to thank you all for your patience, and prayers as we worked through this hard time."
The Mississippi native concluded by telling her fans, "Music to come... 26 is gonna be a good year."
Although Jamie admits that she's no religious leader, she has been very vocal about her faith and the impact that it had on her daughter's recovery.
The sitcom star posted a similar Instagram post a few weeks earlier in which she celebrated the mercy of God.
"We were shown God's grace, and we still feel undeserving of His mercy. I'll never stop thanking each of you for your prayers, because we recognize the miracle it created. We are beyond blessed, and we will NEVER forget y'all, and God's unbelievable mercy," she echoed with the hashtag God is good.
The first recipient and guest of honour at the St Pio Foundation’s inaugural award ceremony later this month will be the Tony and Emmy-winning actor, producer, writer and director Joe Mantegna.
Mantegna is famous for his role in the film ‘The Godfather III’, and is currently starring in the hit CBS television series ‘Criminal Minds’ as FBI
The first recipient and guest of honour at the St Pio Foundation’s inaugural award ceremony later this month will be the Tony and Emmy-winning actor, producer, writer and director Joe Mantegna.
Mantegna is famous for his role in the film ‘The Godfather III’, and is currently starring in the hit CBS television series ‘Criminal Minds’ as FBI supervisory special agent David Rossi.
The award ceremony will take place in Washington on Friday 22 May, the day the people of Ireland will vote in the marriage referendum.
The actor is to star as St Padre Pio in a new film about the saint, which he is also slated to produce.
Mantegna and production partner Danny Ramm will make the film through their company Acquaviva Productions. It will be filmed in locations in Italy but made in English.
According to the film’s website, it “will highlight Padre Pio’s impact on the Catholic Church and the building of his hospital, Casa Sollievo della Sofferenza in San Giovanni Rotondo, Puglia, Italy”.
Padre Pio was born Franceso Forgione in 1887, the son of peasant farmers in Campania in southern Italy. He died in 1968 and was canonised by Pope St John Paul II in 2002.
Joe Mantegna, who was born in Chicago in 1947 to parents from southern Italy – his father from Sicily and his mother was Apulia, said in a video appeal for funding for the film that Padre Pio as “one of the most extraordinary men of the 20th century” and said his life was “truly the stuff of legend”.
He added that, “Painstaking efforts will be made to recreate the time period, including the costumes, hairstyles and furniture, right down to the sandals on Padre Pio’s feet.”
The St Pio Award has been established to recognise the selfless and outstanding contribution to the Catholic Church of those individuals who have strongly committed to support the St Pio Foundation and its vision. Mantegna is one of the most versatile actors working today. He is a star on the stage, in film, and most recently, on television series like "Joan of Arcadia" and "Criminal Minds." But Joe's role as an actor is secondary to his role as a parent in real life, specifically, as the father of two daughters, one of whom, Mia, has autism. When Joe's wife Arlene was pregnant with their first child, all had been going well until one Friday afternoon when she became concerned; the baby hadn't been moving much. Arlene had received a good prognosis only the day before so her doctor wasn't sure if he needed to see her again. Luckily the nurse said, "Since it's Friday, come in otherwise you're not going to feel right all weekend."
A half-hour later, Joe got the call to rush to St. Joseph's Hospital in Burbank, California. The doctor had discovered the baby was in distress and needed to be delivered instantly or she would die. While Arlene was getting an emergency Cesarean section, Joe headed to the chapel.
On the radio program "Personally Speaking" with Monsignor Jim Lisante, Joe recalled, "I went to the chapel. There was nobody else in there. I knelt and—I haven't been the most devout Catholic in my life, I'll be the first to admit, but we all tap into that which we know. And that is my spiritual connection to God, that's the channel it runs through—Catholicism. But I went in there and said, 'Look, I know I'm not on the A Team. I'm not one of the starters; I've been on the bench for a while. But please, if there's something that can be done for this child to live, I'm prepared to do whatever I must do.'" Born three months premature and weighing only 1 pound, 13 ounces, Mia was successfully delivered. Though she spent several months in intensive care, her health improved and she eventually went home. Joe and Arlene thought they had dodged every bullet but, at age three, it became obvious that something was wrong with Mia's development. It was then that they received the diagnosis; Mia was autistic. Recalling that period, Joe says, "I think everybody goes through shock and anger—it's human nature to go through that, but the trick is you have to move past it because you're not doing anybody any good by staying in a state of anger. There's nothing productive about that. So rather than yell at the wind, you try to use the wind you have to fill a sail . . . [my] prayer was granted, but there were obviously some stipulations that came with it. And you know what—it's okay. I look around me and I look at the world and at the suffering that goes on, and I think, 'Why not me?' If this is that thing that we as a family have to deal with, we'll do it. I still feel blessed that we're able to deal with it as best as we can. So I think back on that moment of prayer and I'm convinced that it worked."
Mia is now twenty-two years old, lives with her parents, and is "fairly high functioning." While the autism has brought challenges, it's also brought blessings. Joe says, "My daughter has this purity about her. [Kids with special needs may be] lacking in terms of the things we wish they had—communication, speech, all the behavior that we call normal. The other things they are lacking is—my daughter doesn't understand hate, she doesn't understand jealousy. These abstract kinds of emotions aren't on her radar. So she's pure in spirit. She gets frustrated about things, but she never has a moment of vindictiveness or anger or hatred because it's just not part of her psyche. The magical things about life still exist in her and always will."
Oscar-winning actress Nicole Kidman completed her journey back to the Catholic Church with the June 25, 2006, wedding to country music singer Keith Urban, five years after her divorce from actor Tom Cruise.
The decision to hold the dusk-to-night-time Roman Catholic ceremony at the Cardinal Cerretti Memorial Chapel on the grounds of the Go
Oscar-winning actress Nicole Kidman completed her journey back to the Catholic Church with the June 25, 2006, wedding to country music singer Keith Urban, five years after her divorce from actor Tom Cruise.
The decision to hold the dusk-to-night-time Roman Catholic ceremony at the Cardinal Cerretti Memorial Chapel on the grounds of the Gothic-style St Patrick's College here was seen as a spiritual homecoming for the 39-year-old Kidman whose first marriage, conducted by the Church of Scientology, annulled by the Catholic Church. Kidman's two adopted children from her marriage to Cruise, Isabella, 13, and Connor, 11, served as bridesmaid and usher, respectively. The wedding brought together some of Hollywood's glitterati, including, according to press reports: Naomi Watts, a star of "King Kong": Hugh Jackman, one of the stars of "X-Men"; and Russell Crowe. In his wedding homily during the 90-minute Mass, Jesuit Father Paul Coleman was to preach on the secret of keeping love alive, according to the The Sydney Morning Herald three days before the wedding. "You've got to use little strategies, strategies [such as] surprises, keeping some form of romance in the relationship," Father Coleman told the newspaper he would urge the newlyweds. In his remarks, he said he would urge Kidman and Urban to find time for each in their hectic schedules. "You need to find time. Everyone's so busy today, with their work and paying off mortgages and looking after children; somehow we just have to find [the] time for each other." "I'll tell them the top priority for them will be their life together as husband and wife, and that is more important than their career, their car, anything," he said. "Every marriage has problems," he added, "money or not, that's not the issue. The issue is the two people and their relationship. And that's got to be kept beneficial and fruitful." He pointed to the length of time the newlyweds respective parents have been together. "I mean to me it's wonderful that Keith's mother and father have been married for 42 years and Nicole's mother and father have been nearly the [same]." "That's an outstanding achievement and something that fills you with hope," he said. The 38-year-old Grammy-Award winner Urban was born in New Zealand, grew up in Australia and now lives in Nashville, Tenn., where the couple will reside after their honeymoon.As previously published at Catholic Online, Nicole Kidman struggled with her faith after she married Tom Cruise.
She joined his faith in Scientology for the duration of their marriage but was reunited with the Church after the couple divorced in 2006.
Today, she still enjoys her Catholic faith and said, "Catholicism guides me. I certainly have a strong belief. I try to go to church regularly, and I try to go to confession."
Irish actor Liam Neeson may be known for his roles in movies such as SCHINDLER’S LIST, BATMAN BEGINS or TAKEN, but he’s also no stranger to tackling movies with heavy religious themes. His first credited movie role was a 1978 Irish version of PILGRIMS PROGRESS where he played the role of The Evangelist. A few years later, he was cast as a
Irish actor Liam Neeson may be known for his roles in movies such as SCHINDLER’S LIST, BATMAN BEGINS or TAKEN, but he’s also no stranger to tackling movies with heavy religious themes. His first credited movie role was a 1978 Irish version of PILGRIMS PROGRESS where he played the role of The Evangelist. A few years later, he was cast as a missionary in the Robert De Niro movie THE MISSION, and since has starred in nine Movieguide® Award winning/nominated movies, including LES MISERABLES, THE CHRONICLES OF NARNIA and this year’s SILENCE.
“It’s partly coincidence” he told MOVIEGUIDE® in a recent interview, but quickly admitted “There’s always a little light that goes off in my head when I read a script that’s faith-based in some way. I was brought up quite a staunch Catholic. I was an altar boy for quite a few years as a kid. The Church has always appealed to me in some way, especially when I became an actor, and I’m certainly questing after God and the nature of God. So, I am drawn to it, I must admit.”
“I just thought they were magnificent,” he continued. I was very honored to get the chance to play Christ through a lion, as Aslan. [It’s] very, very special to me. LES MISERABLES too, I mean, he’s not a priest, but [the story is about] the nature of forgiveness. I think LES MISERABLES is up there with WAR AND PEACE as probably the greatest piece of literature that’s ever been written. It explains something about the potential of what humanity is capable of.”
In Neeson’s most recent movie SILENCE, directed by Martin Scorsese, he plays a Jesuit Priest named Father Ferreira, in 17th century Japan who has supposedly apostatized from the faith due to immense persecution. In the movie, two young priests secretly travel to Japan to investigate if Father Ferreira truly has left the faith. In doing so, they struggle with their own doubts and convictions about suffering and salvation.
Neeson said that faith wasn’t discussed much on set during filming. He said he chose primarily to serve the script that Scorsese had written with screenwriter Jay Cocks for nearly 30 years.
Neeson did relate personally to Scorsese in some ways, saying, “I had met Martin in the December of 2014 and we had a quite the lengthy discussion on the nature of faith and why he wanted to make the film. We had similar backgrounds in regards to the Catholic Church. He was an altar boy, I was an altar boy. I think he went to seminary for a while. I didn’t, but I did contemplate the priesthood for a while in a very romantic way when I was a teenager.”
Like the character he plays in SILENCE, Father Ferreira, Neeson is open about both his moments of faith and times of doubt, and tries to grapple with some of the horrendous treatment people endure, as shown in SILENCE.
“You use the word martyrdom now,” he said, “and it takes on a whole different connotation. People are being beheaded because they don’t believe in the right god. It’s history repeating itself in the most horrible, horrible way. Something I learned when I played a missionary in a film called THE MISSION was to try and learn to see God in everything, in every aspect of life, to try and see God working. That helps me too. It doesn’t answer all the questions, but it does go some way towards solving a little bit of the mystery of God.”
While discussing the topic of service with Mr. Neeson, I was reminded of Matthew 25:40 where Jesus teaches on the final judgment and the importance of feeding the needy. In the verse, God says, ‘Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me.’
As I told Neeson this, he nearly finished my sentence and related it back to his movie, saying, “We see that in SILENCE with the character Kichijiro, who keeps giving [Father] Rodrigues away to the authorities, and keeps coming back for forgiveness. I was brought up Catholic, and that’s what Catholics are told, that you can confess your sins and be forgiven, and try to start again.”
Christopher Eugene O'Donnell (born June 26, 1970) is an American actor. He played Charlie Sims in Scent of a Woman, Chris Reece in School Ties, D'Artagnan in The Three Musketeers, Jack Foley in the drama film Circle of Friends, Dick Grayson/Robin in Batman Forever and Batman & Robin, Jason Brown in Robert Altman's Cookie's Fortune, Peter
Christopher Eugene O'Donnell (born June 26, 1970) is an American actor. He played Charlie Sims in Scent of a Woman, Chris Reece in School Ties, D'Artagnan in The Three Musketeers, Jack Foley in the drama film Circle of Friends, Dick Grayson/Robin in Batman Forever and Batman & Robin, Jason Brown in Robert Altman's Cookie's Fortune, Peter Garrett in Vertical Limit, and Wardell Pomeroy in Kinsey. O'Donnell starred as Special Agent G. Callen on the CBS crime drama television series NCIS: Los Angeles, a spin-off of NCIS.
Faith and family first.
That's been the guiding principle of both life and career for actor Chris O'Donnell '92, who spoke to BC students at Robsham Theater on September 29.
O'Donnell is a veteran of film, theater, and television. Currently starring in the CBS crime drama NCIS-Los Angeles, now in its eighth season, his credits include a Golden Globe-nominated role opposite Al Pacino in Scent of a Woman (for which O'Donnell won the Chicago Film Critics Award); parts in Men Don't Leave, Blue Sky, Circle of Friends, Fried Green Tomatoes, and School Ties; plus two turns as Robin in Batman films. O'Donnell has a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame, but he is also well known as a "family man," and has been honored for his commitment to charitable causes.
His appearance on campus opened the 10th season of BC's student-run Agape Latte series. Launched at Boston College in 2006 by the Church in the 21st Century Center and Office of Campus Ministry, the program provides a platform for prominent BC figures to share stories about transformative or other significant moments of faith in their lives. The popular series has inspired similar programs at Jesuit, Catholic, private, and public colleges across the country.
"Remember your priorities. For me it was always my faith, my family, my friends, and my work. It becomes a pattern of your life, and it serves you better than you know. I had my ups and downs, but I never let the highs get too high, and it protected me from the lows."—Chris O'Donnell
O'Donnell, who addressed a packed house of BC students ("I feel like I'm here to announce a new iPhone," he said upon seeing the crowd), said he "was more comfortable with a script" and not particularly versed in describing his faith journey. But, as he shared his experiences of home and career, he soon began to illustrate how faith and family have influenced his choices and kept him on course through the highs of fame and the lows of a fast-paced and occasionally "brutal" industry.
The youngest of seven children, for whom weekly Mass and nightly prayers were the norm, O'Donnell characterized his close-knit Catholic family as his support system, sustaining him in times of doubt or difficulty. A positive experience with Jesuit education at Loyola Academy in Chicago, he said, prompted him to apply to BC.
At the time, he already had several years of modeling for print ads and television commercials under his belt, and was in the process of auditioning for Men Don't Leave, a film starring Jessica Lange and directed by Paul Brickman of Risky Business fame.
O'Donnell never believed he'd get the part, he said, and when they offered it to him, he was torn, because he was still focused on college. ("I was the seventh of seven kids," he said. "It was finally my turn."). Serendipity solved the problem: he would be accepted to BC if he could begin in January, a delayed start that enabled him to do the film.
A graduate of the Carroll School of Management, O'Donnell peppered his remarks with memories of his former professors Richard McGowan, S.J., and the late Ray Keyes; living in Duchesne ("I like Newton"); and of his lack of luck in the housing lottery ("My roommates and I were like the island of misfit toys.")
"I wanted to be under the radar at BC," he said. "I didn't want to be the kid who'd done a film." That became harder to achieve when, after he'd auditioned for a role in The Prince of Tides, his roommate delivered a phone message: "'Hey, OD,' he said. 'Barbra Streisand called for you. What's up with that?'"
O'Donnell's film career continued during his time at BC with roles in School Ties and Scent of a Woman. He described the transition from being "a complete unknown" to co-starring with Pacino as an "explosion," an occurrence that he now recognizes as a pivotal point in his life. While it would have been easy to be influenced by the new-found fame, "Dad said 'don't get carried away by the excitement,'" he recalled, "'because it won't last.'" O'Donnell heeded his father's advice.
When the relentless pace of doing film after film without a break began to "take over my life," he stepped away from the spotlight. He married and began a family—he and his wife of nearly 20 years now have five children—but when he decided to return to work, he faced another pivotal moment at which, he said, his priorities kept him grounded.
"The film opportunities weren't as easy to come by," he said. "It was devastating. But I always put faith and family before career and I think having that focus got me through it."
The experience also prompted him to take a risk: he auditioned for, and landed, the lead role in a Williamstown Theatre Festival production of Arthur Miller's The Man Who Had All the Luck. Though he found the transition to live performance daunting at first ("I knew nothing about theater," he said. "I kept waiting for someone to say 'Action!'"), the play's success and subsequent Broadway run renewed his confidence, and also paved his way to roles in the television hit Grey's Anatomy and, ultimately, NCIS: Los Angeles.
During a Q&A, O'Donnell shared insights into his film career (wearing the Robin suit was "miserable; the thickest wet suit you can imagine" with the mask "glued to my face all day"); NCIS (he'd spent the previous day being repeatedly thrown fully clothed into the ocean while filming episode 175 ("I'm afraid of sharks")); and his personal taste (favorite film? "It's a Wonderful Life; my family watched it every Christmas").
Though he finds it "crazy to think I've been doing this for almost 30 years," O'Donnell hastened to add that he's grateful for the opportunities he's had, and for a steady job doing what he enjoys—especially one that allows him be settled in one place and see his kids every day.
His parting advice to students: "First, remember your priorities," he said. "For me it was always my faith, my family, my friends, and my work. It becomes a pattern of your life, and it serves you better than you know. I had my ups and downs, but I never let the highs get too high, and it protected me from the lows."
"Second, try things out of your comfort zone. The biggest risks can lead to the biggest success, and even failing helps you to grow and to become the person you're meant to be."
Let's be real — given all the negative headlines coming out of Hollywood in recent years, it's seemed like legitimate good guys with acting careers are few and far between. However, Chris O'Donnell hasn't attracted tabloid attention for behaving badly — quite the contrary, in fact.
The wholesome, clean-cut actor made a career for himself in the early nineties depicting characters who — one way or another — benefited from his soft touch. As time passed and his acting roles changed, his attitude remained the same, and his core audience and fanbase grew with him. Though he has suffered the same critical and box office bombs as most other actors — the mid-nineties mishaps "Batman & Robin," "Mad Love," and the Ernest Hemingway biopic "In Love and War" are a few examples — he's nonetheless maintained a consistent career for himself, particularly on television. He's thrived on the shows "Grey's Anatomy" and "NCIS: Los Angeles," which have both utilized his gentle appeal.
By charming both television and film audiences, O'Donnell has become a Hollywood success story — and he's done it without sacrificing the values he holds dear. The key to his life, attitude, and career? It's all here.
He's from a large Catholic family
Growing up in the suburbs of Chicago, Chris O'Donnell was the youngest of seven siblings in a large Catholic family — an environment within which the "NCIS: Los Angeles" star "learned his altar-boy values," according to Rolling Stone. His wholesome religious upbringing seemed to have a positive impact — it kept him grounded in Hollywood, where even the most humble of stars can get caught engaging in some less than decent behavior.
The family values O'Donnell grew up with have seemingly influenced the way he treats everyone around him. "Chris has every friend he's made since the delivery room," "Batman Forever" director Joel Schumacher told the Chicago Tribune. "From the doctor who slapped his bottom to the person he met yesterday ... When you work with him, you become part of his extended family." Unsurprisingly, these values have also extended to the large family O'Donnell has with his wife Caroline.
The two share five children together, with O'Donnell telling Redbook that he and his spouse grew up with "the same values and traditions." Caroline was the sister of one of his college roommates, and they shared "a little smooch" when she came over one day. They "didn't see each other again for three years," but the actor "had never forgotten her." Soon enough, they reconnected. O'Donnell was 26 when they got married. As he told Redbook, having "a traditional family life" was what he desired, not "the playboy lifestyle" that some Hollywood stars embrace.
Chris O'Donnell wasn't exactly eyeing a career in acting when he first sought to get paid for being in front of a camera. In fact, at age 13, he decided to try his hand at modeling. As he told the Chicago Tribune, he thought, "'These guys are making $65 an hour for doing nothing. This is excellent!'" — and what teenage boy wouldn't want a piece of that pie? O'Donnell told Rolling Stone that his sister hooked him up with an agent she'd met at a wedding who agreed to see him. "We went downtown," he recalled, "and the agent said I was perfect."
Indeed she did. Maureen Brockman, the agent in question, told the Chicago Tribune that his "fabulous smile and adorable personality" made him "a perfect package," and she knew immediately that he could find work. Taking baby steps into the next phase of his budding career, O'Donnell started doing commercials. His most notable promotional moment is arguably a 1987 McDonald's commercial in which he's shown serving breakfast to basketball legend Michael Jordan.
His appearance is brief, but his star quality is evident: Has anybody ever looked so enthusiastic and chipper slinging burgers behind a fast food counter? Clearly, this kid could act! His subsequent first feature film performances in the early '90s movies "Men Don't Leave" and "Fried Green Tomatoes" further cemented his burgeoning talent and proved that he wasn't just model material.
Despite gaining a respectable level of success with his formative Hollywood roles, Chris O'Donnell headed off to Boston College, where he majored in marketing. As he told the Chicago Tribune in 1993, his entertainment career had only just started prior to heading off to college, so, like any good traditionalist, he stuck with a pragmatic plan. However, as he started to book more gigs, he had an epiphany, and soon realized that acting was "what [he] wanted to do."
The epiphany came late in his studies, so he "never switched to a theater major or a film major." This fact perfectly embodies O'Donnell's seemingly humble nature — he was a few years behind the rest of the world in realizing what a talent he was. In fact, his college roommates didn't even know that the guy they lived with was a bona fide movie star — that is, until they took a personal call for O'Donnell from the one and only Barbra Streisand.
Recounting the incident on "Watch What Happens Live," the actor told host Andy Cohen that it happened after Streisand decided not to hire him for the film "The Prince of Tides." She left a message with his roommate while he was at the library, which raised some questions. Worse still, when Streisand said that she'd call back the next day, "The entire hall was waiting to answer the phone," O'Donnell recalled. Who wouldn't be?
Chris O'Donnell is one of the nicest guys in Hollywood
In a 1997 profile of the star, the Chicago Tribune mused on how Chris O'Donnell had garnered "some of the worst press in the history of celebrity journalism" due to his impeccably clean-cut image, which earned him nicknames including "Mr. Squeaky Clean" and "The Safe-Sex Symbol of the '90s" — insults that seem incredibly twee in the hindsight of the Me Too era.
Understandably, O'Donnell wasn't hurt by the media taunts. Rather, he almost seemed amused by them. "It frustrates them that I have this clean-cut image," he told the Tribune, his hometown newspaper. "It's not normal for an actor to be like this, I guess. But I'm not trying to create an image. I'm just being myself." It certainly didn't seem to harm his career. If anything, his decency and authenticity went a long way in impressing filmmakers. In an industry full of bad boys and Brat Pack kids, he was a breath of genuine, wholesome air.
Devout Catholic Mark Wahlberg has said his faith is 'not popular' in Hollywood but he cannot deny his religion because that would be 'an even bigger sin' as he celebrated the start of Lent.
The Ted actor, 51, said he has always talked about his faith - but he added 'he doesn't want to jam it down anybody's throat'.
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Devout Catholic Mark Wahlberg has said his faith is 'not popular' in Hollywood but he cannot deny his religion because that would be 'an even bigger sin' as he celebrated the start of Lent.
The Ted actor, 51, said he has always talked about his faith - but he added 'he doesn't want to jam it down anybody's throat'.
Wahlberg said Catholicism had allowed him to focus on being a 'better version of himself' as he appeared on the Today Show on Ash Wednesday, which starts 40 days of Lent.
Wahlberg appeared on the show with a black cross on his forehead - Christian devotees receive repentance ash in the form of the cross on Ash Wednesday, a holy day of praying and fasting.
'I have always talked about my faith,' Wahlberg told the Today Show. 'It's a balance. I don't wanna jam it down anybody's throat, but I do not deny my faith.
'That's an even bigger sin. You know, it's not popular in my industry, but, you know, I cannot deny my faith. It's important for me to share that with people.'
Speaking about what his faith means to him, Wahlberg said: 'It's everything, it's afforded me so many things.
'God didn't come to save the saints, he came to save the sinners. We've all had issues in our lives and we want to be better versions of ourselves, and through focusing on my faith, it's allowed me to do that.'
Wahlberg's family are Catholic, which his son Michael attending his confirmation in July last year. Michael wore a white button-down shirt with a gray tie and matching gray slacks at the time.
Confirmation is one of the seven Catholic sacraments. It is a rite where Catholics reaffirm their faith in the religion they first joined after being baptized.
The Uncharted actor shares four children with Rhea Durham: Michael, 18-year-old Ella, 13-year-old Brendan and 12-year-old Grace.
Ash Wednesday is a Christian holy day of praying and fasting as devotees receive repentance ash in the form of a cross on their foreheads to either the words 'Repent, and believe in the Gospel' or the dictum 'Remember that you are dust, and to dust you shall return.'
As a devout Roman Catholic, no doubt it is important for Mark to participate in acts of contrition as in his teenage years he served 45 days in prison for felony assault for two racially charged attacks on Vietnamese men on the same day.
It’s been about a year since I interviewed Mark Wahlberg — last Lent — when we discussed the beautiful life of Father Stuart Long as told on-screen in the flick Father Stu, which ended up being a box-office success and even led to a reboot featuring milder language.
As we entered 40 days of the penitential Lenten season yesterday, Ash Wednesday, the Catholic actor made headlines again, while speaking about his Catholic faith. The interview hit on several topics, including his own Lenten practices, the danger of duplicity, why he will never deny his faith.
The conversation also brought to mind some of the things Wahlberg told the Register about family.
Sporting salvific soot on TV, Wahlberg proudly shared why he will never deny his faith — even in an industry that shuns it.
“You know, we all know those things that make us feel guilty, don’t make us feel as good as we should, so being able to detach from those things and focus on, you know, good habits as opposed to bad habits,” Wahlberg said, before pivoting to the challenge that lay ahead. “So there are challenges for fasting; like today, I won’t have any meat, I’ll have one meal today, and I will do that every Friday throughout Lent and Good Friday — but just challenging people to be better versions of themselves.”
Expanding the importance of detachment and how there are other things that Catholics need to put down this Lenten season, Wahlberg told Guthrie: “There are many different elements to fasting, and I think the important thing to understand is — and first of all, if you have issues with food, there are other things — God knows the things that he wants you to detach from.”
“I just think it gives me — discipline has always been important for me in life. Once I started getting in movies and transitioned from music, I realized I needed a lot of discipline in my life, and that discipline has afforded me so many other things, and I have been rewarded for it so much, and I want to share that with people,” Wahlberg added.
“So, whether that’s with fasting, working out more, detaching from other things, and just spending more time with God in prayer or in thoughtful reflection, and those things are important,” he added.
As a father of four, Wahlberg also spoke to Guthrie about teaching the Catholic faith to his children, telling Guthrie, “I don’t force it on them,” adding his concern about causing any “resentment” and his desire to lead by example.
“I want them to gravitate to it in a very natural way. I want them to understand that Dad has to start the day by getting on his hands and his knees, and no matter where I am, the priority on Sunday is to go to church; so to be able to do those things and just see them — hopefully, they will say, 'Well, okay, there’s got to be something there’ and let them do it on their own.”
Wahlberg spoke to the Register in April 2022 in Helena, Montana, on the sidelines of the Father Stu premiere and spoke about the importance of family. Broaching the topic of how he helps guide his own children in an increasingly hostile world when it comes to faith, he says it all comes down to communication and an understanding of our human condition.
“I think, for parents and kids, just communicating with each other, being honest about how you feel, especially kids being able to communicate their feelings. ... When you see kids are dealing with their suffering and having to keep things inside, that should be accepted and embraced, no matter what. That was a very difficult thing. ... You know, there’s one Judge. There’s one Judge. And we’re all sinners. We’re all weak in the flesh. And we all have made mistakes. But we want to encourage people ...”
Speaking with Today about his new role with the Hallow app, along some some other Catholic actors, including Jonathan Roumie, Walhberg spoke about the importance of community during this period of penance, especially on the heels of the height of the COVID-19 pandemic that impacted so many during the Lenten season of 2020, leaving millions isolated, alone and without the sacraments.
“We want to bring people together,” he told Guthrie before he quoted the late Pope Benedict XVI: “The world affords you a lot of comfort. We’re not made for comfort. We’re made for greatness. In order to be [great], we gotta be in the fight to get the rewards.”
“Being a Catholic is the most important aspect of my life,” Wahlberg said in an interview with the Catholic Herald in the U.K. He continued,
“Once I focused on my faith wonderful things started happening for me. And I don’t mean professionally – that’s not what it’s about. These days, I’ll be in church and people will come up to me and say: ‘Do you mind if I sit and pray with you?’ And they’ll start praying and it’ll turn out they’re praying for their new movie to be a success or whatever, and I’m like, this is not what I come here for. For me to sit down and ask for material things is ridiculous. It’s a much bigger picture than that. I want to serve God and to be a good human being and to make up for the mistakes I made and the pain I put people through. That’s what I’m praying for, and I recommend it to anybody.”
– Mark Wahlberg
Wahlberg’s whole life changed when he began to center his life on prayer and on his Catholic faith. He stayed focused on what is most important in life, and his career followed on that path. Wahlberg spoke of his priorities in life saying,
“Being a good actor or a good producer: that’s not going to help me sleep at night or get me into heaven. The most important thing from where I sit is to be a good father, a good husband, and a good human being – a man who helps his fellow man and raises his kids to be good human beings too. Every single aspect of my family life is joy”
Kevin James
April 26, 1965 (age 58)
Mineola, New York, U.S.Occupations
Years active1989–presentSpouseSteffiana de la Cruz(m. 2004)Children4RelativesGary Valentine (brother)
Kevin George Knipfing (born April 26, 1965), better known by his stage name Kevin James, is an American comedian and actor. He is best known for his role
Kevin James
April 26, 1965 (age 58)
Mineola, New York, U.S.Occupations
Years active1989–presentSpouseSteffiana de la Cruz(m. 2004)Children4RelativesGary Valentine (brother)
Kevin George Knipfing (born April 26, 1965), better known by his stage name Kevin James, is an American comedian and actor. He is best known for his role as Doug Heffernan on the sitcom The King of Queens (1998–2007), for which he received a Primetime Emmy Award for Outstanding Lead Actor in a Comedy Series nomination in 2006. He also was nominated for a People's Choice Award in 2017 for his role on the sitcom Kevin Can Wait (2016–2018).
James has appeared in the films Hitch (2005), I Now Pronounce You Chuck & Larry (2007), Paul Blart: Mall Cop (2009), Grown Ups (2010), Zookeeper (2011), Here Comes the Boom (2012), and Pixels (2015). He has also done voice work for Monster House, Barnyard (both 2006), and the first three films of the Hotel Transylvania franchise (2012–2018).
He also had roles in the drama films Little Boy (2015) and Becky (2020).
James was born Kevin George Knipfing in Mineola, New York, on April 26, 1965,[1] the son of American office worker Janet and German-American insurance agency owner Joseph Valentine Knipfing Jr.[1][2] He grew up in Stony Brook, New York.[3] He has a sister named Leslie and an older brother named Gary, the latter of whom also became a comedian and actor under the name Gary Valentine.[4] The siblings were raised Catholic. James graduated from Ward Melville High School,[5] where he reached the top position on the wrestling team, one spot above his friend and future professional wrestler Mick Foley. Both wrestled in the Heavyweight weight class. When James suffered a season-ending back injury, Foley took over the first string position.[6] Both men went on to study at the State University of New York at Cortland, where James played halfback on the varsity football team until another back injury permanently ended his sporting ambitions.
Kevin James, who played Doug Heffernan for nine seasons on the CBS sitcom and has since branched out into movies, has no problem talking about his values and how it affects his career.
“I am involved in my faith, it becomes more and more – you know, it becomes a difficult, difficult position. You have a platform and you don’t want to do anything that doesn’t glorify God in every way,” James told Catholic News Service in a telephone interview from Philadelphia.
“I can’t play a priest in every film, either. You definitely want to have a positive message. I want to be able to sit and watch my movies with my children,” added James, who is married with two daughters and one son. Having control over and writing the material, according to him, is a key to “be inspiring and (to) move people in a positive way.”
James, 47, is promoting his upcoming film comedy, “Here Comes the Boom.” In it, he plays a high school science teacher who once loved his work but has “lost his mojo,” as he put it, but gets it back when budget cuts threaten the job of the music teacher (Henry Winkler), who never lost his love for teaching.
James’ character even goes so far as to train to be a mixed martial arts fighter – which James did in real life to prepare for the movie – in the belief that even a loser’s payday in such a bout will reap the bucks necessary to save the music program.
It’s not that James admits to some road-to-Damascus moment that made his faith all the more relevant to him. “I was born and raised Catholic and absolutely love my faith and learn more and more about it all the time,” he said. “It’s nice to have that going into whatever you do, whatever part of life you take upon yourself.”
It might have been, though, that James had his own lost-his-mojo moment. “I’ve been very guilty, a lot, of not knowing my faith too much and just praying when I needed it when something bad happened in my life and not being thankful when things turned good,” he told CNS. “The more I realized how important it is, the more I want to learn about it and do the right thing. All good is from him (God), and so I want to honor him. It’s honestly about learning more and instilling that in my kids and my friends, and those around me.”
Even before he hit it big on the small screen with “The King of Queens,” James was known as a standup comic who worked clean – but not necessarily as a byproduct of his faith. “It was easier to get on television and it was more universal” than using coarse language, he said. “I saw people who were kind of filthy in the clubs and they were very, very funny (in) what they were doing. But you weren’t going to be able to get on ‘The Tonight Show.’ I was selfish – I didn’t want to have to change my material.”
James has been in the public eye for 14 years, first with “The King of Queens” and a series of mostly hit film comedies including “Hitch,” “Paul Blart: Mall Cop,” “Zookeeper” and “Grown-Ups” and its sequel. What if it all comes to an end?
“There’s always that possibility,” James replied, “It’s his will, not mine. If it doesn’t happen, I’ve definitely had a great run. I’ll continue to do it, or find my path to something else. He’s given me the platform to do it. It’s great, yeah, I love it.”
Kevin James agrees. Speaking with him about his new workplace comedy series, The Crew, premiering on Netflix Monday, Feb. 15, I asked him, as a Catholic actor, about the importance of making family-friendly comedy that inspires and uplifts, especially amid the coronavirus pandemic.
"Yeah, absolutely! It's always important, it really is, but now more than ever, because we do need that break; we need that release — we're meant for that. I honestly believe that you have to turn it around. And even in our quarantine, I was quarantined with a big family of directors, really good guys, the Kinnane family, and they helped me put together this YouTube channel, and we just did these short films that are just goofy and kind of fun to try and give to the world some comedy — and also good for me. It was literally cathartic for me to get out there and do it, so ... we need it, we need it, and I always love doing it."
Kevin James is not shy about sharing his Catholic faith in his life, to the media, or even on the screen. His 2012 hit Here Comes the Boom showed fighters and trainers, hands linked in prayer, before a fight. When I asked him about his faith and his willingness to witness to others, he said it is very important to him. Speaking to Catholic media in 2012, James said, “I was born and raised Catholic and absolutely love my faith and learn more and more about it all the time. It’s nice to have that going into whatever you do, whatever part of life you take upon yourself.”
James seems to be a normal fixture at Catholic events, not as a speaker typically, but in attendance; he is usually seen palling around with well-known Catholics. Social-media posts spied him attending the 2020 SEEK conference sponsored by FOCUS. He is also close to several Catholic authors and speakers, including Dr. Scott Hahn, who has hosted him at some of his retreats. James' career reflects his desire to stick to the tenets of his faith — even in his early days performing stand-up, all of his comedy was clean. Of course, James is no stranger to the sitcom. Most people know him from his role in CBS' The King of Queens.
His new show on Netflix, The Crew, is set inside the inner workings of a NASCAR racing team, starring James as crew chief. In watching the first few episodes, this workplace comedy showcases a tight-knit racing team, but it really does seem more like family, with loads of laughs along the way. NASCAR actually worked in tandem with the producers of the show, offering a rare insight into the sport that garners millions of fans and comes with its own subculture. With the show premiering a day after the Daytona 500 (airing today), James said his experience in the life of racing was thrilling.
"I grew up on Long Island, New York, and early on, I was a Richard Petty fan, and I dressed up like him for Halloween one year, but I wasn't exposed to much NASCAR growing up. It wasn't til about 10 years ago, when I did promotion for a movie, that they asked me to be a grand marshall for one of the races. ... It's insane when you go there. You see it on TV: You just see the guy in front of the pack. You think this guy is gonna win, you know; you don't know how much goes into this sport. A live event is just a whole different world. ... Doing a workplace comedy, with that backdrop, was just a no-brainer for me."
This is James' first entree into Netflix, and he said it has been nothing but positive. With no studio house or production companies in the way, Netflix is able to run a show in a more open and freeform way, allowing more creative control to rest in the hands of the writers and producers of the show.
"It's much different and much better for me. With network [programming], you got the studio. ... Sometimes they're worried about the commercials, the advertisers. Netflix just does their thing. They give you the reigns, and they let you go. They believe in you. They give great notes when they do give notes, you know; but for the most part, they let you do your thing. And there's a comfort there. You get to work with great people, and whenever you're worried about 'hey, can we do this or that?' they're just like: Just do it. So it has just been a great experience for me."
The entertainment industry has definitely been hit by the pandemic. Theater companies have had to shutter or go online, while drive-ins seem to be making a comeback. Although there are valid concerns about the lack of the social aspect in entertainment, with so much programming going online or streaming, James says he isn't certain about what the future holds, but he sees a silver lining.
"I don't know; I don't know. It is nice to see things in a theater with other people, people laughing next to you and stuff, but I mean, Netflix has proved that it works, too. You can watch with your family. But there is something to it. I get it through doing it in front of a live audience; that's why I love the four-camera shoots where you have that audience reaction. That's why I love stand-up, that immediate reaction, and you can kinda guide [the audience reaction], and you're out there live, and it's fun. I remember when I used to do movies that were in the theater, and I'd sneak in the back during the premiere just to get the audience's reaction. That's taken away for now, but it's also great. We've adapted to watching at home, now and, with what's going on in the world, it's awesome. Entertainment is great; as long as you get to watch it with the people you love, it's fun."
Finding programming that allows the entire family to laugh together is hard these days, even with the multiple options for entertainment. As a mother of a young toddler, I have cringed every time the television is on, and sometimes it's just getting through the commercials. James says bringing a fun family-friendly show to the public is crucial to his career in comedy, especially as a man of faith. It's what he sets out to do. As a father of four, he takes it very seriously.
"Basically, family-friendly comedy that can transcend all so it's not just, you're watching it with the kids, it's boring for the adults — but it's engaging for adults, but it's also fun for kids, and you're comfortable watching it with your whole family. And that's — you don't find too much of that now — so it's hard to do that. And I know when I sit down with my kids, I don't want to be uncomfortable watching stuff. So it makes it grand, and Netflix was fantastic with this."
Neal McDonough[1] (born February 13, 1966) is an American actor. He is known for his portrayal of Lieutenant Lynn "Buck" Compton in the HBO miniseries Band of Brothers (2001), Deputy District Attorney David McNorris on Boomtown (2002–2003), Tin Man in the Sci Fi Channel miniseries Tin Man, and a main cast role as Dave Williams in Season 5
Neal McDonough[1] (born February 13, 1966) is an American actor. He is known for his portrayal of Lieutenant Lynn "Buck" Compton in the HBO miniseries Band of Brothers (2001), Deputy District Attorney David McNorris on Boomtown (2002–2003), Tin Man in the Sci Fi Channel miniseries Tin Man, and a main cast role as Dave Williams in Season 5 of Desperate Housewives (2008–2009). He has also appeared in films such as Star Trek: First Contact, Minority Report, Walking Tall, and as Timothy "Dum Dum" Dugan in various Marvel Cinematic Universe films and TV series. In the DC Arrowverse, he has appeared as Damien Darhk in the TV series Arrow, Legends of Tomorrow, and The Flash. He had a major role in Suits for several seasons (2014–2019) and played Malcolm Beck on Yellowstone (2019).
McDonough was born in Dorchester, Massachusetts, on February 13, 1966, the son of Catherine (néeBushe) and Frank McDonough, motel owners who emigrated from Ireland, with his mother coming from County Tipperary and his father from County Galway.[2][3] McDonough grew up in Barnstable, Massachusetts and was raised Catholic.[4] His childhood nickname was "Headster", which McDonough says originated in his brothers' teasing him about the size of his head.[5] He graduated from Barnstable High School, and attended Syracuse University, where he was initiated and became a member of the Sigma Chi Fraternity and graduated with a Bachelor of Fine Arts degree in 1988. He had obtained several college scholarships to play baseball, but decided to go to Syracuse, as he thought it had the best theater department.[6] McDonough furthered his classical theatre training at the London Academy of Music and Dramatic Art.
McDonough is a devout Catholic.[17] In 2003, McDonough married Ruvé Robertson, a South African model whom McDonough met in the United Kingdom while filming Band of Brothers.[18] The couple has five children, Morgan "Little Buck"[19] Patrick (born November 28, 2005), Catherine Maggie (born May 14, 2007), London Jane (born January 11, 2010), Clover Elizabeth (born August 15, 2011),[20][21] and James Hamilton (born March 31, 2014).[22] He has stated that he refuses to perform sex scenes because of his faith and respect for his wife. He said he was fired from the TV series Scoundrels for his refusal to perform sex scenes.[17] McDonough and his family resided in the seaside community of Tsawwassen, British Columbia,[23] but have since relocated back to Los Angeles.
The Christian Post reports that Neal and Ruvé, who have been married for 20 years, have often been at odds with the demands of the film industry. For example, Neal is well known for refusing to take on roles that require him to kiss other actors. The famed actor, who has made a name for himself playing villains on TV and in cinema, has stated that “these lips are meant for one woman.”
His strong convictions as a man of the Catholic faith have sometimes led to McDonough losing roles, as was the case with ABC’s Scoundrels in 2010. In an interview with Fox, McDonough explained that there are many factors to his decision not to take on characters who have carnal relations on the silver screen, but he also will not play characters who disparage the name of God:
“I won’t mention the Lord’s name in vain, and then I won’t kiss another woman,” the 53-year-old told Fox News. “Sex scenes aren’t in it for me. And I think, gosh, there’s enough sex scenes out there and me being in my fifties I’m not sure if anyone wants to see me doing that stuff anyway, but it’s a comfort level.”
Neal and Ruvé, who are the proud parents of five children, say they want their new production company to “have a faith backdrop.” They say that not all of their releases will be overtly religious, but every one of them will be “faith friendly.” They also hope that their films will draw audiences of all faiths and even those with none.
Neal expressed the pair’s excitement over taking the reins of the project and releasing content that they are proud of professionally and spiritually:
“Now I have that opportunity because Ruvé and I are doing it ourselves, and are so blessed to have companies that support us and back us and want to make more films and TV shows, or reality shows or any kind of show that gives glory to Him,” McDonough declared. “Not just to make a movie, but to do a movie that actually gives Him glory — that’s our goal,” he added. “And that’s what we’re after, and we’re very fortunate to be able to do it.”
Actor Neal McDonough for years has talked openly about his faith and how his fidelity to his wife nearly cost him his career in Hollywood. You might not know the name but you'll likely recognize him in the photo above.
You might recall that McDonough was pretty much a constant on TV for years, and then he was gone... for a while. Why? It’s because the happily married man and Catholic father of five refused to love scenes. And BOOM went the hammer! He was fired from the television show “Scoundrels” and things looked pretty grim for a while.
In his own words, he was considered to be a "religious zealot." Yahoo:
“I was [surprised], and it was a horrible situation for me,” McDonough said. “After that, I couldn’t get a job because everybody thought I was this religious zealot. I am very religious. I put God and family first and me second. That’s what I live by. It was hard for a few years. Then [Band of Brothers producer] Graham Yost called me and said, ‘Hey, I want you to be the bad guy on Justified. I knew that was my shot back at the title.”
In the end, McDonough said, everything has worked out well for him professionally because the setback pushed him to improve his acting. He’s on the History Channel’s new series Project Blue Book and has several other projects, including the animated Sonic the Hedgehog, in the works. On the personal level, McDonough said, things have been going well for since he met and instantly fell in love with his wife-to-be after meeting her on the streets of England, where he was filming HBO’s acclaimed 2001 miniseries Band of Brothers. “Almost 20 years, five kids and just one heck of an awesome life later, to have her as my partner in everything, I’m just the most blessed guy I know,” he said. “That’s why I go to church every day and say thank you to God for everything he’s given me. And most importantly, thank you for giving me Ruvé, because without her, I most certainly would not be talking with you right now.”
That's pretty awesome. And just to let you know, the show “Scoundrels” was cancelled after like five episodes or something like that. McDonough's career, however, continues to do quite well.
“God has got a great sense of humor.” It’s a popular saying when something ironic or poetic happens in someone’s life. While it’s often said tongue-in-cheek, it is also a form of acknowledgment. It’s an admission that we as humans do not have control over everything in our lives. It’s a subtle submission of one’s will to the circumstantia
“God has got a great sense of humor.” It’s a popular saying when something ironic or poetic happens in someone’s life. While it’s often said tongue-in-cheek, it is also a form of acknowledgment. It’s an admission that we as humans do not have control over everything in our lives. It’s a subtle submission of one’s will to the circumstantial hilarity that God may have temporarily set before us as a reminder.
For example, Catholic comedian Jen Fulwiler was a guest on The Cale Clarke Show this past week and she happens to be an only child who was born into an atheist family and lived most of her young life in the Bible Belt. God does have a great sense of humor.
The atheistic perspective was not a popular one in the region for obvious reasons and the clash over religious stances led to a conflict-filled social life for young Jen. These negative experiences with Christian acquaintances tainted her perspective of Christianity as a whole, and by the time she got to college she considered herself a “militant atheist.”
There was, Jen admitted unsurprisingly, a long journey from that identity as a staunch atheist to a devout Roman Catholic, but she brought up one event that she believes sparked her journey to Christianity: the birth of her first child. Both Jen and her husband were only children, had never anticipated having kids, and were perfectly content to maintain their individualistic worldviews. Jen said she had been involved in secular feminism for a while and had just assumed she would live a childless life. But the birth of her child had an incredible effect on her.
“I said, ‘You know, the love that I feel for this child, it seems to have a source outside of the atheist, materialist worldview. I don’t think I believe that the love that I feel for this child is purely a chemical reaction in the human brain.'” She began to question the idea that if you can’t prove it in a laboratory, then it can’t be true. Because how do you prove love? Maybe there are truths out there that don’t rely on the scientific method.
After this eye-opening experience, Jen started a blog to find people that she could discuss this with. She didn’t have a specific idea of what she was hoping to hear, only that she wanted answers to questions that were starting to occupy her mind. She had realized how alone that atheistic path had left her and although she had her growing family, she was left wanting. Soon after this discovery, Relevant Radio came to her hometown of Austin on 970 AM. Not Catholic and not even sure if she would become Catholic, Jen began putting her baby in the backseat for his nap and driving around the city for a couple of hours while listening to Relevant Radio, a “pivotal part” of her conversion.
Cale then asked her what types of reactions she got when she told people that she was becoming Catholic and she mentioned the incredulity and shock she would get from her friends. She joked at people’s responses, “They say, ‘Why would you leave the freedom of atheism for the Roman Catholic Church?’ And that’s just the Catholics.” But she also mentioned the way her father reacted, saying that he never intended to lock her into atheism and prohibit her from exploring other ideas. He had always raised her to seek the truth and upon hearing that she had found the truth in the Catholic Faith, he said that he didn’t understand it, but he supported it. Her father was present when both Jen and her husband Joe were baptized at Easter Vigil.
In eight years, Jen had six kids, believing that God was not calling her to do comedy, at least not yet. So she wrote for the National Catholic Register, blogged, and wrote a book with Ignatius Press, Something other than God, published in 2016. She also has two other books now, One Beautiful Dream (2018) and Your Blue Flame (2020). As her kids got older, Jen moved into Catholic Radio, but after a while, she once again felt the call to do stand-up comedy. So, against all logic, she quit her stable job — during the pandemic — to share her story and her life experiences through comedy.
“But my husband and I both really prayed about it. And oddly enough, we felt God telling us now is the time even though it makes zero sense on paper.” This event marked the epitome of Jen’s submission to God’s Divine Providence. It may seem crazy, but if this is God’s will, let it be done. And just recently, Jen was signed by United Talent, a top Hollywood agency that represents other comedians like Sebastian Maniscalco, Nate Bargatze, and Jeff Foxworthy.
Jennifer Fulwiler, a Catholic mom of six, writer, speaker, podcaster and comic, has hit the big time in stand-up comedy, between notoriety as the “TikTok mom on the plane” and the launch of her one-hour Amazon Prime comedy special, Jen Fulwiler: The Naughty Corner.
Fulwiler’s career literally began with her conversion from atheism, blogging at “Conversion Diary” and writing for the Register, until she made a leap of faith into radio and stand-up comedy, recognizing it both as a vocation and a kind of ministry to help lift burdens from people weighed down by the problems of their world.
Fulwiler, on the cusp of launching her new stand-up “The Minivan Fabulous Tour,” spent some time with Register staff writer Peter Jesserer Smith discussing the truth, goodness and the beautiful hilarity of her career in stand-up comedy and the importance of following one’s God-given “blue flame.”
So Jen, you went from ardent atheist to Catholic mom of six and stand-up comic in 14 years? Where has your career come from?
I started writing and blogging at the National Catholic Register and my own blog. Then I wrote my conversion story, a memoir for Ignatius Press. My next two books were with HarperCollins, and one of the big things was I was on the Catholic Channel at Sirius XM. I had a daily talk radio show there. That was a wonderful experience, and I’m still friends with all the people over there; they’re amazing. But the feedback that I would always get on my radio show is that people liked it most for the humor. They liked it when I use humor.
So I was kind of praying about what to do next in my career after one of my books came out. And I really do believe it was a God thing that I just got this very sudden answered prayer to try stand-up. And since that day, I have never looked back. I have been 100% in stand-up. It was a very sudden decision and change. But I really do think it was kind of an answered prayer and what I was supposed to be doing.
What was that moment like when you realized that?
I had felt like something was next. I didn’t have peace in my life. I felt like there was something I was supposed to be doing. But I didn’t know what it was. And so I said the prayer where I told God, “Either remove this lack of peace from my life, or tell me what I am supposed to be doing.” And the idea just came to me. I was just sitting at my desk after I got off my radio show. And it was this very sudden and very strong inspiration to do stand-up. So I went down to my first open mic the next day, and the first person I ever spoke to in the stand-up world ended up being a girl who’s my comedy writing partner! She tours with me; she’s my opener. So the very first person I spoke to in that world happened to be someone who’s now a good friend of mine. So God started opening doors very quickly once I followed that path.
Clearly you had this inspiration from the Holy Spirit. But how did you actually get yourself to go up in front of a whole bunch of people and just start to do that?
I’m crazy. I mean, I do all sorts of crazy stuff. I had done public speaking. I went to events and spoke on all sorts of topics, so I was used to being on a stage. I learned very quickly that stand-up is a totally different thing. And just because you can be funny on a stage with regular public speaking does not mean that you can do stand-up. So there was a lot to learn. And I really had to study the art. I took that very seriously. In fact, I actually have Excel spreadsheets that I would create where I would put each joke in it. And I would rate how it did with different crowds and graph the response.
You’re kidding. You really did spreadsheets?
Literally, I did spreadsheets. But it did help me. I got an hour of material very quickly. And then I started contacting stand-up comedy clubs. Understandably, they hadn’t heard of me — I came out of nowhere — and so I wasn’t getting booked to do shows. So my friend and I started calling theaters. I kind of knew where my fans were, so I would just go to Google Maps. For example, I would just search “theater in Columbus, Ohio,” and I read reviews of the theater and if it got good reviews. Then we would call the theater and put down my personal credit card. And we booked a 14-city tour totally on my personal credit card. If I hadn’t been able to sell tickets, we would have faced bankruptcy. It would have been terrible.
Oh, wow. That’s a leap of faith.
That was absolutely terrifying. But it was a national sold-out theater tour. And that is where my comedy special came from. I got connected with the guys from Spirit Juice. They’re amazing. They’ve done a lot of incredible work with Bishop [Robert] Barron. They filmed my comedy special, which is actually higher quality than if it had been done by Netflix. Netflix does a three-camera shoot for comedy specials. Spirit Juice did an eight-camera shoot, and it’s in 4K.
The first theater tour was booked entirely by me. But just last month, I signed with United Talent Artists. They represent Jeff Foxworthy, Nate Bargatze — big, big names. And when you scroll down, you see my name right there on that list! So that was really gratifying, because I had been doing it by myself for so long. It’s so nice now to kind of have a team at UTA that’s on my side and helping me out with all of this.
That’s a great next step in the chapter of your career. Now, a lot of people looking at your stand-up comedy special, The Naughty Corner, will look at that and ask themselves, “Does all this material just come out of you fully formed?” Where does the material for your comedy routine come from? How did you successfully work this out?
When I got into this, people said that because I have a big family — I have six kids — they said, “That’s going to be a disadvantage for you.” “It will be very hard for you.” But what I found is it turned into an advantage. Because we have a big family, there are constantly people in and out of our house.
As an aside, people in the comedy industry were shocked that I created the set that you see in The Naughty Corner on Amazon in less than a year. It was a matter of months. And that’s very unusual. Normally, it takes comics — even seasoned comics with decades of experience — it takes them a year at least to come up with material. When people ask how I did it so quickly, it really helped being in this big-family Catholic culture, where I did what I call “garage comedy.” I would get my kids, my older kids and their friends and neighbors, and just gather people in my garage. I would read through my comedy, and actually give them survey sheets with each joke. I wouldn’t spell out the joke, but it would be a set list, and I would have them rate it. And I would tell them, “I need you guys to be honest. Because if you lie to me and tell me something is funny that is not funny, then I am going to be very embarrassed when I am up on stage in front of hundreds of people.” And they were honest. They would say, “I just didn’t understand that punch line. I didn’t find that to be very funny.” And then at other things, they’d say, “This is so funny! You have to develop this more. We want three more minutes on this subject.”
Having this big-family Catholic culture where there are people in and out of your house all the time was really my ace in the hole. I was able to gather people and engage an audience in a way that many comics can’t get.
In what way is comedy good for the spiritual life?
Comedy is so good for the spiritual life because comedy is predicated on humility. And humility is such a critical virtue.
There are a lot of quotes about how pride is the most dangerous thing for the spiritual life, because it makes us think we don’t need God, that we’re so great, that our ego is central to everything. If you think about it: When you’re in a very prideful state, you can’t laugh; you’re too full of yourself to laugh. And laughter reminds us that we can laugh at this, because God is in charge, and God has things under control. And if God didn’t exist, and the weight of the whole world rests on our shoulders, then nothing’s funny: The world is too dire; and it’s too serious; and there’s no hope.
And that spirit of laughter reminds us that we’re so small in the grand scheme of things, and God has got all of this under control. And that is why we can laugh. And when we laugh, we remember that.
In our social milieu, do you see being a stand-up comic as a kind of ministry?
It feels that way. In fact, one of my inspirations for getting into comedy is when I was having a hard time in my life. And we’ve had a lot of difficult things, like in my sixth pregnancy: I almost died; the baby almost died. It was a very hard time. And comedy was a way that I relieved those burdens and felt a little bit better about life. But so much of the stand-up comedy entertainment out there was directly insulting to people of faith. I mean, they would straight-up insult Catholics all the time.
But I just thought, “I wish someone could make me laugh and speak to my perspective and not act like people of faith are stupid and not constantly make jokes at the Catholic Church’s expense.” And then I think of all of my friends: When you’re in this Catholic world, when you’re in the culture of life, it’s not an easy life. The Christian life is never an easy life. And so I looked around, and I saw all these friends: They’re volunteering at the nursing home, they’re raising children with disabilities, they’re working with the poor, they’re exhausted, and they don’t have a comedy special that they can turn on at the end of the day to just relax and laugh. Or if they do, it’ll be absolutely filthy and insult everything they stand for. And so doing comedy that speaks to the perspective of people who can relate to my life, I really do see it as a type of ministry.
One of the things I was impressed with in your comedy special was how many people were reaching out to you about their own struggles. You shared some of your own experiences of grief and the things you were going through, such as your father passing away during the tour.
Yes, in the middle of the tour.
How did you get through that, process it, and get to the point where you could share that experience with others?
That was very hard. He died about three weeks before I filmed the special, and he was supposed to be there that night. Another thing to understand is he lived right down the road from us. He took my kids to all of their activities. He was in and out of my house every single day. He was our free chauffeur; he had dinner with us once a week — he was a very intimate part of our immediate family. And I’m an only child. So we were very close. And when he died, it was sudden. It was an internal-bleeding issue. I had just been texting with him. Nobody saw it coming — we thought he was great. I thought I had 20 more years with my dad.
When he died, it was the night before my Atlanta show. I got the call at two o’clock in the morning. But I knew a lot of people had really gone out of their way to get babysitting. I had a couple people at the Atlanta show who had bought plane tickets to be there. So I couldn’t cancel the show. I had to go up on stage right after getting that news and do an hour of stand-up comedy. That was certainly not an easy thing.
And then we had to plan his funeral in the middle of that. I had to go out and film my special, and there were a lot of difficult things just about the logistics of getting that filmed, as well. But I think that’s one of those things where you just have to believe that if God means for you to do something, and if it’s in his plan, he’ll give you the grace to do it. And that was the only thing that got me through that Atlanta show — is that I just felt like, “This is bigger than me. Yes, I’ve had something bad happen. But I bet a lot of people in the audience have had something bad happen to them, and I need to set aside my own sadness and my own grief and do what God has sent me here to do tonight.”
If I didn’t have that belief that I was meant to do this, and that this [stand-up comedy] is kind of a ministry to lift other people’s burdens and to help them, I don’t know how I would have gotten through that show.
Can you tell us about your most recent book, Your Blue Flame: Drop the Guilt and Do What Makes You Come Alive? What is your “blue flame,” and what is the message that you’re trying to share with people
The message in that one is: I really did not like this message that is out there that women need to put their lives on hold when they have young children. ... What I saw is that these women’s talents and what they had to give back to their communities were not being seen, because they believed that they had to put their lives on hold. That message, “Put your life on hold when you have young children,” works if you’re in a part of the culture that believes it’s irresponsible to have more than one child and so you take measures to make sure that you don’t. But for my people, for many of them, it was the right decision for them to have a bigger family. They felt like, “Well, I guess I can’t ever use my talents because I could be changing diapers when I’m 50.” So it was important for me to get the message out there that God has given each one of us “a blue flame” as just a way to add love to the world. It could be anything from stand-up comedy to just cooking in your home. It doesn’t have to involve making money. It doesn’t have to involve worldly success or be glamorous.
It’s just something that builds you up, when you give back in some sort of way, like just stopping by your local nursing home to chat with the people there; something like that. What I found — and I had six babies in eight years — is that when I engaged in my “blue flame,” not only did it not detract from my vocation as a wife and a mother, but it enhanced it; it gave me more energy, more life and more love to share with my family. That was the message that I wanted to get across in this book: that when you seek your blue flame, and you discover it and you use it, your family will actually benefit. It is a favor to your spouse and your children to do that.
Thank you for that witness, because we definitely need high-profile examples to show just that. We’ve seen a lot of people in the Catholic spotlight achieve a certain degree of fame only to publicly unravel in spiritual crises later. What are your thoughts on that? How do you navigate that kind of tension?
I know exactly what you’re talking about. And I’ve seen that. One, it starts with staying humble and seeing everything you do as service. I tell God every day, this [career] is up to him; the results are up to him. I think one of the things that can lead to spiritual crises is when you get too attached to the worldly results. That can really start to drive you crazy and be very damaging for your spiritual life. So you have to just let all that go and let the results be up to God.
To be honest, it has helped me to move from the Catholic media world and into the stand-up comedy world, because certainly you hear and see things when you’re in Catholic media that can be dispiriting. And when I left Catholic media, one of the reasons I did that was because I felt like it was starting to become bad for my spiritual life to be so deep in that world where I was hearing about all the skeletons in the closet. Every group has them, and it doesn’t mean that the Church isn’t ultimately a good thing. But for me, and where I was in my spiritual life, I needed a break from that world. I didn’t know if it would work at the time, transitioning into stand-up comedy, but I said, for the sake of my own personal faith, it is no longer healthy for me to be so deeply involved in the day-to-day working of that world.
Last question: You just went viral on TikTok as the mom with the PSA about babies on the plane. But what’s next for you in your stand-up career?
That has been really funny how much that viral stuff has gotten around. But what’s next is I am back out on tour. I don’t have dates yet, but I will at JFComedyTour.com. Probably in September, I will be starting back out on tour. And I’m calling it “The Minivan Fabulous Tour“ to let my moms know that this can be kind of a fun night out for them. I’m doing that with United Talent Agency, my new agents. So that’s very exciting, and I already have hit a couple of real comedy clubs. That was an interesting experience: being the Catholic minivan-driving mom of six headlining major comedy clubs! But this will be a comedy-club tour. And it’s a real worlds colliding thing.
Pierce Brosnan admits that he might not have learned all he needed to know about math from the Christian Brothers in Ireland, but the teachers imparted one thing that has stayed with him to this day – his Catholic faith.
Brosnan credits the power of prayer with guiding him through life’s ups and downs.
"(Prayer) helped me with the loss of
Pierce Brosnan admits that he might not have learned all he needed to know about math from the Christian Brothers in Ireland, but the teachers imparted one thing that has stayed with him to this day – his Catholic faith.
Brosnan credits the power of prayer with guiding him through life’s ups and downs.
"(Prayer) helped me with the loss of my wife to cancer and with a child who had fallen on tough times. Now prayer helps me to be a father, to be an actor and to be a man.”
Perhaps best known for playing James Bond in a series of films.
Brosnan, whose father left home shortly after his birth, was raised by relatives after his mother left to work in England. At age 15 he set out on his own in London to be an actor. He joined a theatre group and later studied at the Drama Centre of London. He married actress Cassandra Harris, and the two subsequently moved to the United States; he became a U.S. citizen in 2004. Brosnan was soon cast as a charming con man in the NBCtelevision detective series Remington Steele. The show, which premiered in 1982, was a success, and in 1986 he was chosen as the successor to Roger Moore as James Bond—the suave British secret service agent 007 created by novelist Ian Fleming. Remington Steele ended in 1987, and Brosnan continued to take on television and film roles, then in 1994 Brosnan was finally able to accept his first film in the Bond series, GoldenEye (1995), which made more than $350 million worldwide, the most ever for a Bond film at that time. The second, Tomorrow Never Dies (1997), scored record grosses for a Bond film in the United States. Brosnan starred in The World Is Not Enough(1999), and made his final appearance as James Bond in Die Another Day (2002).
Throughout his career he maintained his steadfast faith:
“It always helps to have a bit of prayer in your back pocket. At the end of the day, you have to have something and for me that is God, Jesus, my Catholic upbringing, my faith.”
Pierce’s first wife, Cassandra Harris, died of ovarian cancer 20 years ago. The son they had together, Sean, was in a serious car crash a few years back in California, but luckily he survived and is thriving again.
Brosnan and his mother left his hometown of Navan, Co. Meath in 1964, when he was 12 years old, for greener pastures in London. His father left the family when he was only two, so times were tough.
"In a way (my life) all leads back to a little boy in Navan, my home town on the banks of the Boyne.
Sometimes, it has been painted in melodramatic tones but it was a fantastic way to be brought up. The Catholicism and the Christian brothers, those are deep-rooted images and the foundation for a person of some acting skill,” he says.
"God has been good to me. My faith has been good to me in the moments of deepest suffering, doubt and fear. It is a constant, the language of prayer … I might not have got my sums right from the Christian Brothers or might not have got the greatest learning of literature from them but I certainly got a strapping amount of faith."
College students across the country use their time in school to figure out where they are heading in life. Aaron Weber, a 2010 graduate of Pope John Paul II High School in Hendersonville, has landed on a stage, holding a microphone, making people laugh.
Weber, who first tried stand-up comedy at the University of Notre Dame when he was a st
College students across the country use their time in school to figure out where they are heading in life. Aaron Weber, a 2010 graduate of Pope John Paul II High School in Hendersonville, has landed on a stage, holding a microphone, making people laugh.
Weber, who first tried stand-up comedy at the University of Notre Dame when he was a student there, has spent the past five years building a career in comedy. On Wednesday, Sept. 30, he will be the headliner at Zanies Comedy Club in Nashville and the show will be recorded for his first comedy album.
“It’s a culmination of a little over five years of taking stand-up pretty seriously,” said Weber, whose father, Faustin Weber, is the former headmaster at JPII High School. “It’s a big milestone for sure.”
The album of the show will be produced by 800 Pound Gorilla Records, a Nashville-based company that specializes in comedy recordings. Weber’s album will be available on Amazon and other outlets and he hopes will get some airplay on XM Sirius’s comedy channel and other similar platforms.
“It’s exciting to have stuff out there,” Weber said.
Zanies, which can hold 310-315 people in normal times, is limited to half its capacity because of COVID-19 restrictions, Weber said. There are still some tickets available for his show. They can be purchased online at Nashville.zanies.com, at Weber’s webpage, aaronwebercomedy.com, or through his social media platforms, realaaronweber.
Weber is hoping his classmates and friends from JPII will be able to get to the show, despite the coronavirus. “I’m still am pretty close with a lot of my classmates,” he said. “Hopefully some of them can come out.”
He did have a big turnout of JPII people at his previous opportunity to headline at Zanies, including classmates, teachers and staff. “That was a cool show of support,” he said.
Weber described his style of comedy as “clean,” which for some people has connotations of being for children or corny, “which my show is not,” he said.
“There’s no politics. There’s nothing serious. It’s just silly stories about me and things I’ve observed,” he said. “It’s just a silly night. You’re not going to learn anything. … you’ll just have fun and then you’ll leave.”
When he was younger, Weber considered a future in music. He plays the guitar, piano and drums, and in JPII’s Jazz Band, played the xylophone.
“I think that’s all I wanted to do when I was younger,” Weber said of his musical aspirations. “Probably if you would have asked me 10 years ago, comedy wouldn’t have even been in the cards. It’s been a hard pivot in the last several years.”
His classmates recognized him as funny, but “I never thought of myself as a class clown,” Weber said. “I always liked making people laugh. I always loved public speaking. Looking back all the pieces were there.”
Weber grew up in Montgomery, Alabama, where his father, now the principal at St. Michael High School in Fairhope, Alabama, was president of Montgomery Catholic High School. In 2008, when Weber was a junior in high school, his family moved to Hendersonville so his father could take the job at JPII.
He enjoyed his experience at JPII, Weber said. “I remember people being really nice,” he said. “The school got me into a good college. I wouldn’t have gotten into Notre Dame without JPII, for sure.”
The school “had all these extracurriculars I did that probably led me to stand up,” including Youth in Government, Mock Trial and debate, Weber said.
It was at Notre Dame, where he graduated in 2014 with a degree in marketing, that Weber first tried stand-up comedy.
“In college, we had a stand-up group on campus where I dipped my toes in,” Weber said. “I loved it right away and thought I could be good at it right away.”
“I’d always been a fan of stand-up,” Weber said. “I just decided to start doing it. There’s no barrier to entry. You just decide one day I’m going to show up and do it.”
After graduating, Weber returned to Nashville and started pursuing a career in comedy, performing at open mikes at venues around town. “You get four minutes in front of a group of strangers,” Weber said. “Four minutes can be an eternity. You just try to make people laugh in four minutes. Then you do shows of 10 minutes, which is quite a leap.” The show for his comedy album will be an hour long, he noted.
It didn’t take long for Weber to decide to try to make comedy a career. “That was the goal pretty quickly. I realized if I could only do this, that would be pretty amazing.”
He spent nearly five years performing around the country every chance he had. Young comedians are told to never turn down a chance to perform, Weber said. “You’re told to do everything. That puts you in some weird worlds.”
He’s performed in prisons, people’s back yards, and Protestant Churches, he said. “It’s opened a lot of doors in that way.”
Weber has been able to tour with established comedians such as Nate Bargatze and Henry Cho as their opening act. He’s also a regular on the Nateland Podcast with Bargatze, a Nashville based comedian who has had several specials on Comedy Central and has performed on the Tonight Show.
“Nate’s been a mentor,” Weber said. “He’s been a I guy I’ve been a fan of for years. To go from being a fan to a friend to being on a podcast with him is pretty surreal.”
Comedy can be a small world, Weber said. “You get a chance to work with some of the big headliners right away,” he said. “That’s one of the cool things about stand up versus something like music.”
After working day jobs for several years, Weber was able to make the jump to full-time comedy a year ago. “Little did I know a few months later the world would end.”
Weber plans on staying in Nashville as he continues to build his comedy career, rather than moving to Los Angeles or New York. “I think that’s less important now than it used to be,” Weber said.
Nashville has several advantages for comedians, including Zanies, “an A-list, world class comedy club,” Weber said. “Zanies has been a great friend to me since I started,” said Weber, who has performed at the club in a variety of roles, including hosting the show, being a warm-up act, and as a headliner.
It’s easy to go on the road from Nashville, Weber added. Several top comedians live in Nashville, he said. “Seeing those guys do it out of Nashville made me feel better about staying here.”
Weber’s goal is to continue his comedy career, “make a living this way, and gradually start to headline more places.”
British actor/singer/Producer Matthew Marsden began his acting career in the UK and rose to stardom from his role on the long-running ITV series Coronation Street (1960), as Chris Collins. He left the show to pursue a music and acting career in the US and hasn't looked back since.
Since moving to the US, Marsden has been working successfu
British actor/singer/Producer Matthew Marsden began his acting career in the UK and rose to stardom from his role on the long-running ITV series Coronation Street (1960), as Chris Collins. He left the show to pursue a music and acting career in the US and hasn't looked back since.
Since moving to the US, Marsden has been working successfully on feature film, television and music. He starred in Ridley Scott's Black Hawk Down (2001) and he was the lead in USA's epic movie Helen of Troy (2003)
Marsden's career started in the UK with the series Emmerdale Farm (1972). He soon landed a series regular role on the television series Island (1996) which led to Coronation Street (1960) for which he was voted Top Newcomer at the National Television Awards. He went on to star in the independent drama Shiner (2000), opposite Michael Caine and the film The Sun Sisters (1997). In addition, Marsden signed with Columbia Records and recorded the hit single She's Gone, with Destiny's Child, as well as a solo album called Say Who.
Marsden studied performing arts at Middlesex University. He was also a member of the acclaimed National Youth Theatre.Matt Marsden is a Catholic Hollywood actor, who spoke at World Youth Day 2011 urging young Catholics to get involved in movie-making and other artistic ventures in order to change the culture. Marsden has starred in movies such as Black Hawk Down and Transformers. He took part in a panel discussion on the subject of faith and entertainment at Madrid’s Palacio de Deportes: it is the culture that young people are growing up in that most concerns Marsden, and the lack of impact that Catholicism has upon the movie making process in Hollywood. “There’s not going to be anything left if we don’t fight,” he added. “Pope John Paul was so explicit about… getting involved in culture and movies – and at the moment we’re not.” Marsden also stressed the importance of prayer and the sacraments for inspiration and healing.
Hollywood actor Matt Marsden said that young Catholics need to get involved in movie-making and other artistic ventures if they want to change the culture.
“It’s vitally important for the future,” the 38-year-old actor – who has starred in movies such as “Black Hawk Down” and “Transformers” – told CNA during his World Youth Day visit in Madrid on Aug. 19.
“There’s not going to be anything left if we don’t fight,” he added. “Pope John Paul was so explicit about it wasn’t he? About getting involved in culture and movies – and at the moment we’re not.”
Marsden had just taken part in a panel discussion on the subject of faith and entertainment at Madrid’s Palacio de Deportes indoor stadium which, for this week, is a base for English-speaking pilgrims at World Youth Day.
“There’s so much I wanted to say to the young people – that I’m so proud and inspired by them and that they’re so far along in their faith at such a young age. I think that’s really crucial.”
But it is the culture that young people are growing up in that most concerns Marsden, and the lack of impact that Catholicism has upon the movie making process in Hollywood.
“We are the only group that doesn’t have a voice in Hollywood – the only group – and that’s totally down to investment.”
The solution, said Marsden, is for “high net worth” Catholics to come together to create a film fund that could invest in specific film projects or even buy a studio. Otherwise, film projects that promote or reflect a Christian worldview simply won’t get made, he said.
“You’ve got to look at something like the 'Passion of the Christ,'” Marsden noted. “To me it always was a slam dunk. You’ve got Mel Gibson who, for me, is a fine actor and is an even better director – the guy is a genius – and he couldn’t get funding for it. That for me is just madness.”
“Catholics,” he said, “will sit about and complain about the state of the culture but then they’ll go and build a wing of a hospital. That’s great but they’d have much more impact on the culture as a whole if they invested in a film fund.”
Marsden originally hails from near Birmingham in England but now lives in Los Angeles, despite his ongoing obsession with his favorite English soccer team, West Bromwich Albion. His greatest passions in life, however, are his family and his faith.
“I get great inspiration from my wife,” said Marsden, who has been married to Maltese-born Nadine for the past six years. They have three children.
“She is the way that people should live their lives. The way she behaves, she’s amazing. Every time I look at her I see the goodness of God. I really mean that – because she’s an angel.”
Equally inspirational, he said, are prayer and the sacraments.
“Confession is very, very important as well. When I was younger I never went to confession and now I go weekly. It is such a great gift and people who don’t go should go.”
As for future projects, his ambition is to make a film about the 16th century Siege of Malta when the Christian Knights of St. John, vastly outnumbered, defeated the Muslim forces of the Ottoman Empire.
Marsden explained that “if Malta had gone Christendom would have been wiped out.”
“It is a staggering story of faith, just staggering,” he said, but it would also make “an incredible action film.”
The hero of the story is Jean Parisot de Valette, the Grand Master who was “a 73-year-old man fighting in a suit of armor – I mean it’s just so cool,” Marsden said.
“And I love Malta because my wife is Maltese and the set is already there – it’s the island. So that is my dream to do that. It would be excellent. And I’d love Mel Gibson to direct it.”
Matthew Marsden is a Hollywood actor, former singer, and native of Great Britain. He has appeared in films including “Rambo” and “Black Hawk Down.” He lives with his wife, Nadine, and their son in Los Angeles. The family is frequently involved in activities with Family Theater Productions, a division of Holy Cross Family Ministries, founded by Father Patrick Peyton.
“When I met my wife, I knew there was a God”
In a turn of events worthy of a film script, Marsden was playing the role of Paris, the famous lover whom some would say fate introduced to the beautiful Helen of Troy, when God introduced him to his real-life sweetheart.
Marsden was filming in Malta when he got thrown from his horse and began taking a Pilates class to help his back recuperate. There, he met Nadine, a ballet dancer who was also recovering from an injury.
“When I met my wife,” says Marsden, “I knew there was a God. Every person I meet just falls in love with her because she’s such a good person.”
It didn’t hurt that Nadine was Catholic. In May of 2005, they were wed.
“She has really great faith,” says Marsden. “It helps that we go to Mass together. It helps that we can sit and talk about these things. It helps when we can say the Rosary together. It helps that I can sit and say my prayers with my son when he goes to sleep and she does the same.”
Marsden believes it was nothing less than divine intervention that brought Nadine into his life. “She was absolutely chosen for me.”
Once in a while, there comes a time in your life when you get a nagging doubt, a hole in your heart that needs to be filled. Some people try to fill it with sex, drugs, money, other vices. For me, it took God to fill that hole in my life.
I was doing what I do now — working as an actor in Hollywood — when it began. I wasn’t living a terrible life, but I wasn’t living the life I should have been. Reaching out for God’s forgiveness didn’t really occur to me. I grew up in an Irish Catholic family in England, and unfortunately, the Church I experienced was a lot of fire and brimstone. We weren’t taught about the mercy of God. It took a special friend to bring that revelation into my life.
It all started some years back when I was in the States doing a TV pilot and one of my fellow performers gave me the book The Case for Christ by Lee Strobel. At the time I was looking at different faiths, searching for answers in my life. When I finished this book, it hit me: This is it. Jesus was real. And He is the Son of God. Not long after, I ended up sitting next to a Catholic priest at a wedding reception who turned out to be Father Willy Raymond of Family Theater Productions. I knew I was probably going to ruin the poor guy’s dinner bending his ear, but I couldn’t resist asking all these questions I had. Finally Father Willy asked if I’d like to come to Mass at St. Monica’s, a parish affiliated with Family Theater. This would have a bigger impact on my life than I could have imagined.
You need more than a knowledge of the Catechism to be a true Catholic; you need an understanding of God’s love and compassion. Father Willy’s got that. He’s never judgmental. He listens. He’s guided me as I discover my faith but never forced the issue. The things I’ve learned from him will stay with me for the rest of my life.
One of the most important things I’ve learned is that the Church is made up of sinners who are offered God’s forgiveness. A lot of the people I heard talking about God when I was younger came across as sanctimonious. That kind of talk just makes people think, I can’t be a part of that; I’m not good enough. But we all have flaws. We all have fallen away from the Lord. That’s why He came down for us. That’s why He’s here.
So I say to people that as I develop in my faith, I know that there are going to be times of doubt. I know there are going to be days when I don’t make God the priority. I am by no means the finished article. I’ve made loads of mistakes in my life, and I’ll continue to make them. But I’m trying. We all just need to keep trying and moving forward.
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I don’t look at the world in the same way as I did before reconnecting with my faith. I feel so excited about how much there is to discover. All these things have helped me realize what’s really important. Sometimes I would say to Father Willy, “If such-and-such ever happens, I would never forgive myself,” and he would say, “Who are you? Who are you not to forgive yourself when God has forgiven you?” It’s overwhelming. I’m this 6-foot-3, 210-pound guy, and yet when I go to Mass I have to hold back the tears, especially when we say, “Lord, I am not worthy to receive You. But only say the word and I shall be healed.” It just kills me, every single time.
Matt, his wife Nadine, and their eight children live in Texas, where they are extremely active in their local Catholic parish and school.
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